Hi,
I am new here and fairly newly diagnosed with kidney cancer and secondary in one of my lungs. I am just waiting for my next appointment which will tell me whether surgery is possible.
At my last appointment I was told that without treatment I would have months to live and with effective treatment hopefully years. What I would like to ask any more experienced members is ways that you manage to find a level of peace with that uncertainty.
I am supposed to be getting as fit and healthy as I can before surgery but if I really only have a few months to live I want to eat all the nice cake 
I can! I think that the “whether to eat cake” debate is a microcosm of the larger “how to deal with 2 quite different potential outcomes” question. Do I do a bucket list or try to keep things as normal as possible? Do I dance until dawn while I can or do I try to keep my sleep regular for optimum health? Everything has changed yet everything is still weirdly the same.
So hello to everyone and thank you to everyone who has posted and blogged before, reading your experiences has helped me to get my head around some of what may be ahead for me.
