The first indication that there was something wrong was seeing a small amount of blood in my urine. This was late September. I already had a scheduled appointment at the doctors to see a nurse concerning my annual blood test results. I told her about the blood and she arranged for urine tests and further blood tests. This went on for a month.
Early in November there was a more substantial showing of blood. I phoned the gp surgery and arranged for a callback from a doctor. She put me on the cancer pathway and later that month I had an ultrasound and cystoscopy. Cystoscopy showed that my bladder was clear but the ultrasound indicated that something else was wrong.
A ct scan took place in mid December. I saw a doctor on the 9th of January who advised me of the cancer of my left kidney. The decision of the MDT was for surgery to remove the kidney and would take place within three months.
A few weeks later I had a conversation with the consultant who had decided that because of the size of the tumour surgery would be too risky due to the proximity of other organs. He suggested immunotherapy to shrink the tumour initially. He also arranged for a biopsy and further CT scan. The scan was on the 19th of February and the biopsy on the 18th of March.
I saw the oncologist on 5th March and again on the 25th. He arranged for the immunotherapy to start on the 7th of April. Unfortunately on that day my blood pressure was found to be too high and the procedure had to be cancelled.
After contacting my gp surgery I saw someone the following day. She took my blood pressure but would not increase my medication until I had taken readings for a week. I see a doctor on the 16th and am hoping my medication will be altered. I have a further appointment to start my treatment on the 23rd of April, fingers crossed.
Looking back it seems to have taken far too long to get to this point and I wonder if the cancer could have spread in the meantime.
Everybody I have been in contact with has been marvellous, I cannot fault them but it seems as though the system is against me.
Hi Librarian,
I am so very sorry you are going through all this. You are doing extremely well to hold it together under these circumstances...this is so stressful and worrying and seemingly the goalposts seem to be constantly pushed further with each contact within this system.
Regarding your fear that the cancer may have spread: of course this is a risk that we always dread, with any kind of cancer. Generally, it appears that RCC (the most common type of kidney cancer) is slow growing. I assume this will also include potential spread, but I am not a medic so am just going on all that I have read and researched since finding out about my own. It is still a heck of a long time for you to have to wait and worry, and I keep seeing others also waiting for kidney cancer treatment and I don't know if it's something to do with health authority area (mine was very on the ball) or something to do with the type of cancer.
I do hope your 23rd April start date will happen. Do you know how long you will be under this treatment, before surgery? At least once it starts, you know things are moving. I really feel for you with all these delays and cancellations. My mum had her breast cancer surgery postponed many years ago, because when they came to collect her in the ambulance and took her BP it was sky high. She was all packed and psyched up to go in, and she was devastated.
Hang in there, keep your finger on the pulse and chase up any delays. Whether or not delays will affect your physical health, all this is very stressful and stress is not beneficial to you. I sometimes wonder if those who run the "system", actually take into account the stress their patients are suffering whilst their "system" moves the patients slowly through! Perhaps it's down to funding - I have no idea, but I do hope your treatment journey is actually on its way now at last.
Hugs to you
I suspect that the fear of the cancer spreading is something we all experience and a natural reaction. I agonise over the time between a CT scan and hearing the result. Maite is right: it is all very stressful. You feel powerless as your fate is not in your own hands. All you can do is to chase up any delays and trust your team. Like you, the individuals I have had contact with have been marvellous, from consultants and nurses to radio therapists, but sometimes there can be slip ups, like the time someone forgot to book the CT scan but, thankfully, my allocated nurse was quickly able to sort it out when I queried why I hadn’t been notified of an an appointment.
My diagnosis and operation was during lockdown in 2020 so it was a surreal experience and probably atypical.
I am so sorry you had to go through this during Lockdown! I hadn't had any health problems at all at that time (my very first was in 2022- 2023) but always dreaded anything happening to me as the situation was dire and I was scared that I would have a very very long wait for any kind of treatment, even urgent treatment!
I'm glad to hear you had a good experience in that regard. In other words, you had your investigations and treatment. I think the majority of people did, in fact, if it was a serious illness. But it must have been worrying simply because of the situation at the time, around the pandemic.
I hope you are fit and well by now (hopefully, long before now!) and send you more hugs
Hello Maite,
Thank you for everything you have said. My cancer is the RCC so hopefully it is moving slowly or not at all. I know that there was no change to be seen between the CT scans taken in December and February.
I try to stay positive making the best of each day and appreciating the little things. For example today I ate my first English strawberries this year and they were beautiful. I have also enjoyed the lovely sunny weather we have been having.
So onwards and upwards.
I love the Kent strawberries best! They have more flavour than those from any other part of the UK or from abroad.
I hope your sun lasts a bit longer than down my way. I think the SE still has it whilst we are swamped in rain since yesterday. But I'm sure this is just a blip, and the good weather will return after Easter I'm sure. Nothing more cheering than sunshine and blue sky and hearing the birdsong and the wind in the leaves. Oh and looking up into the dark sky to see the moon, full or otherwise, and the stars. I love these things anyway, but somehow can enjoy them even better when I stop taking them for granted and really appreciate the beauty of them.
And there's an amazing community on here...I have only been here less than two weeks but already feel the love and care radiating from every forum I have so far come across on here. I don't have family - just my dogs, my live-out partner, and a few good friends - and am used to getting on with life on my own, but when something like this hits you, it's so reassuring to have support and this is what I am so grateful for now, having discovered this Community!
It must have been very strange and worrying to be diagnosed at that time. I hope that you are well on the road to recovery now.
I see a gp tomorrow regarding my blood pressure meds and hope that they will be adjusted so that my treatment can go ahead next week.
Despite the stress I sleep very well which should help with overall health.
And, as you may have guessed from my chosen name, I like to read which helps with relaxation.
I am new. I discovered my kidney mass in October 0f 2025. The emergency hospital did a c scan and told me to go see my regular doctor. My doctor put a rush on it but I had to go through a urologist before I could get any other treatment The Urologist didn't think it was a rush so it was a month before I saw him. He scheduled me for bladder exam which was another month of waiting. Originally he wanted me to wait 6 months and I said no. But he successfully draged this part out until December. fiinally he recommended a Kidney cancer sight that deals with this exclusivelly, And they did a bunch of test and here we are in March and I feeling worse. I trust them and it looks like surgery. I am just getting ansy as I am starting to feel worse everyday and I am bleeding a lot.
Hiya pups galore...nice to meet you.
You will find that the waiting, the unknown is the worst. I am presuming that you have seen the urologist now. Have u been given the phone numbers for the nurses etc. I would advise that you contact your team and tell them you are feeling worse, listing your symptoms, new and old and explain how anxious it is all making you feel. They can give you more information and hopefully help settle your mind.
The main thing about kidney cancer is that it is usually slow growing. Hence the urgency we feel, the consultants feel differently.
If u join the kidney group on here and fill in your profile (this helps by not having to repeat yourself and gives us, ur new friends a better chance to support and help u along)
Honestly this group is a life saver, such love and help and support.
So tomorrow make ur list and ring your team nurses...
here for you
Thank you. I do have a conference with the doctors on Thursday. I want to tell them I am getting worse but don't want to alarm them that I may not be ready for surgery. I need to eat and I don't want to. That is a new one for me as I have alway loved food.
Welcome, Pupsgalore.
You have come to a good place. I am new here also but already feel the empathy and support from this lovely online community. This is a very scary time for you, and sharing your worries and fears will help you to offload and hopefully feel a little more reassured.
Everyone here has had or is having a slightly different experience - I would say that no two cancers are ever the same! But sharing our experiences helps each of us to become stronger. Strength and positivity is very valuable in the fight against cancer, or indeed any illness.
Good for you, standing your ground with the urologist. Hopefully by now you will have been seen and will know the path forward.
Surgery tends to be the first line of treatment in most kidney cancers, but because it is a slow growing cancer, surgery can often clear it pretty efficiently.
Wishing you well, and I hope you are starting to get your treatment plan outlined now.
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