Hello,
Does anyone have any experience of what I should expect my dear mum to go through in the latter stages of kidney cancer? I have no real clue of what I should expect.
Although she is "comfortable" the pain seems to flair up regularly and getting swift and appropriate pain relief is proving difficult in her nursing home.
GP's are overstretched and hard to come by and the palliative care team seem to want to defer to the GPs. It's very harrowing to witness and makes you despair when you can do little to help but keep begging for more pain relief from staff who are unwilling/unauthorised to give it.
Thank you for your time.
Poli
Hi Poli, although I don’t have experience of this sad situation, I just wanted to say that I feel for you, it must be so hard to see your lovely mum in pain. I would keep persevering with the calls and explaining that someone does need to do something. Take care, I do hope that you and your mum get the support you both need. Big hugs Jules x
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