Hi, I'm new to the group. My Mum was diagnosed with a rare form of cancer of the ureter in January. On 1st March she had radical surgery to remove her left kidney and associated tubes. For 74 years young she's making a remarkable recovery.
Last week the surgeon called to say the cancer was grade 4 and aggressive and they'd found it also in the removed kidney. In order to treat any rogue cells and to be sure the cancer had gone, she is going to undergo Chemo. We're just waiting for a call from the Oncologist.
My Dad is 78 and is doing so well looking after Mum; I've been working full time from home from their house since Mum came out of hospital (I took annual leave her first week at home), whilst also looking after my 5 year old daughter.
Dad has asked me questions about the Chemo and I've tried to answer to the best of my knowledge. I'd like to prepare Mum's body for the onslaught of Chemo so she is in the fittest possible state. I've been told about increasing Vit C and D levels, taking probiotics for her tummy and herbal remedies to help with platelets. I really don't know quite what to do? I feel pretty scared if I'm honest, I'm an only child and am trying to hold things together but sometimes I'm struggling. My partner is not the greatest support and I've found more support from my Team Leader at work.
I'm sorry for such a lengthy post and thank you for reading but at 49 years old I suddenly feel lost and lonely.
Samantha (Sam)
