My mum has kidney cancer

Hi there

There is no right thing to say (I know that from being on the other end). Knowing the you care and want to be with her every step of the way is what she needs. When you can visit her - seeing people makes me realise how much they care. And look after yourself - cancer affects everyone not just the person who has it

Hi there MichH,  Suffolkflyer here, wise words indeed from Neil_8307. Your  Mum, will know yiou are concerned and your love will shine through. I am quite a bit further down the road than  your Mother and the care and concern by my wife, adult children and friends always comes through. Take care of yourself as well. 

Thank you so much for your message, it honestly means so much, I hope you have the support and care that even me as a family member have received 

Thank you so much, yes they are lovely word I honestly appreciate all the support 

Just be there to listen to her worries, what a lovely caring son she has, wishing her and you all the luck in the world. Xx

Hi I had my left kidney removed last October sorry to hear about your mum just be there for her operation isn't to bad just uncomfortable for couple of weeks im sure she knows your there to support her hope all goes well x