It's not all bad!

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I thought I'd post this as there are a few starting, in treatment or on the long haul to recovery, and this may just help give some hope. 

2 years ago today I paid my last visit to the LINAC at Southampton hospital following 29 previous sessions of RT and 5 chemo infusions.

The photo proves that the camera can lie.  Despite the happy appearance I was I a difficult place like so many of us at that time. 

The next photo was taken exactly one year later in the middle of the Bay of Biscay.  Since then we have also travelled to Europe for 6 weeks and we are just back from Egypt.

There is no photo of today only because I'm chilling at home, going out for a meal tomorrow to celebrate my "xx" birthday! 

There is the potential for a good quality of life after treatment. It comes with time and a determination to not let cancer rule your life.  Sure I have my issues with taste, swallow, fatigue, dry mouth and a multitude of niggles, but we learn to manage those.

Gratitude must go to this group for the help and support given over the years.  Without doubt my family and especially my wife have had a rough time of it, but they have been my rocks I can rebuild my life, and our lives on.

Enough said. I just wish everyone well on their own journeys and I hope my experience helps in some small way making yours just a little easier.

 

  • Good to see you looking so well Peter

    Stan and I have spent a little time this afternoon hauling this owl box up into the tree. I was on pulling duty on a rope. A little over seven years ago I was sleeping most of the day after treatment end. 
    Life returns. I always knew it would but there were times when it was hard. 

    Dani 

    Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019

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  • Thanks Peter for such an uplifting post. It does seem when you start treatment that life will never be the same again but we push through and life starts again albeit for some in a slightly altered form. Life is still good though and I am forever thankful for the second chance I have been given. 3 years since my last cancer intervention and I am off on a cruise to Vanuatu at the end of May. Would never have thought it possible while struggling through treatment. I have attached a photo of my recent visit to Brighton beach (in Australia not the U.K. ) to view the annual sculpture display along the foreshore. Had an icecream but most of it ended up down my face courtesy of the issue I have with my eating but it still tasted great. For everyone starting treatment it does end and life is good again. P.S. Happy birthday Peter.

    Lyn

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  • Well put Peter....Life is tough during the treatment but slowly life gets better, challenges become a little less challenging and we start to see light at the end of the tunnel, plans can be made as obstacles disappear.

    I thought my days of going on holiday were finished...far from it.

    Michael

  • Happy 'xx' birthday Peter. Having only recently joined the group and I'm due to start treatment within weeks.  I have found your posts so reassuring, along with  a few others who regularly help with information and advice . I'm not sure if you realise just how helpful you all are. You all have definitely helped calm my anxiety. So happy birthday and a big thank you.   Tracy x

  • It's really good to see posts like this they are a great inspiration to others. It's good to see you looking so well, proving there is a great life to be had post treatment.

    Ray.

  • Thanks  for your post and great pictures very up lifting .I've just started  the book you recommended very .Thankyou

  • Hi Peter we’ve been   with  you since the start   Great uplifting post . Happy birthday for tomorrow mines next Tuesday from memory yours behind me. How I can be 69 next week !!! That’s almost then uk. Carry on living and enjoy birthday meal. 

    Hazel x

    Hazel aka RadioactiveRaz 

    My blog is www.radioactiveraz.wordpress.com  HPV 16+ tonsil cancer Now  6 years  post treatment. 35 radiotherapy 2 chemo T2N2NM.Happily getting on with living always happy to help

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  • Thankyou Peter and happy 21st birthday :) lovely reading this im 5 months since finishing my treatment 30 radio 5 chemo ive still a few problems which im sure will be resolved ,I come on here to read the great stories from people who have been through this frightening time and came out of the other side and people just starting their journey ,This forum has really helped me and still does and i am so very grateful to everyone on here.xx

  • If the truth be known 68 today.  First diagnosed at 61 so not doing too badly Grinning

    Peter
    See my profile for more details of my convoluted journey
  • Happy Birthday.