Feeling alone

Summer475 said:

I feel so alone and isolated.

H Summer. I am lost for meaningful words of support  as I feel really out of depth here but I am so really sorry for the fix you are in. 
I know you posted earlier in the year and I remember urging you to ring MacMillan where you did get some help. 
I know now you find yourself in a much more urgent and precarious situation. 
Please give MacMillan support line a ring again. . The number is at the bottom of this post 

There will be somebody to talk to you there. 

Do you have hospice care in your area. They might be able to help. It doesn’t mean you have to stay there till the inevitable but a few days being looked after will surely help. 

Dear Summer475

I am so sad to read your post. You should be supported and loved by your friends and your family in such a terrible time. It is crucial that you talk to someone at Macmillan's. I am sure they will be able to listen to you and direct you towards the support you need and should have. I am so glad that you came on here and expressed how you feel. We are all here for you. 

Sending you loads of love. 

Fab1

Thank you

Thank you. I'm so used to having to deal with things on my own and find it hard to ask for help. It's taken alot of courage for me to say something.

Please never hesitate to come on here and share how you feel. I think that this community is like a large family. We are all here for you. 

Fab1

Thank you that's really nice to know. I really appreciate it.

Hi Summer

I can't say anything other than my heart breaks for you and your wife. 

Dani's suggestion of contacting the local hospice is a good one.  I've experienced then with both my mother and my uncle who I was primary carer for.  They both found peace at the hospice or at home under their care.  The hospice workers had time for them and made their last weeks and days as maningful as they could.  They are also experts in pain relief.

I hope you find some peace soon.

Thank you

Asking for help is one of the hardest things we can do. I am also so very glad that you came on the site. 
I do hope you get comfort from the forum, I find folk on here are incredibly genuine. I wish there was something I could say to ease your pain, both physical and psychological.

Please do call the MacMillan support line that Beesuit mentions and seek out your local hospice as suggested by your fellow members. Our Journeys are all different but your anguish might ease when you talk to someone. A call might open some doors and you will get more appropriate care and support.

If you feel up to it, I (and I’m sure I speak for all who’ve responded to your post) would be keen to hear how you get on.

It’s nearly 2am and I’m wishing you a good nights sleep xx

Hi Hevallan 

Thanks for joining in. I've read your profile and can only wish you all the luck in the world and give you a big virtual hug