2 years on

To add to this....

Members who saw me through treatment may remember that to keep focused on the future I was planning a party for my 50th.

Invites were sent, cakes baked, playlist, photos and decorations sorted. I decided I have everything I need so didn't want gifts, but asked for donations to Macmillan, we've raised enough to fund the forum for a day or two, so that has made me happier than any gift would have. I'll do a blog update with more on that. Sadly, I had to postpone. I think we're going ahead in September. Whilst planning I also thought that (sorry if this seems too flippant a term) but if any of the 'class of 21' members who helped me through were to find themselves in Staffordshire you would be more than welcome. You helped me get to celebrate. 

I got the devastating call on my birthday that day was end of life, so I made the dash up to Leeds. He was pretty out of it by time I arrived, but I got a squeeze back. He held on until the next morning. We held his funeral yesterday. To say I am heartbroken is the biggest understatement. Thankfully, although it will never be back to its pre-cancer glory the voice did me proud, my brother and I gave the eulogy.

So, although this may seem a sad post, as always it really is hope filled. If you are in those toughest days of treatment, belive in yourself, you will get stronger. Side effects fade, life comes back  and you live it with more vigour knowing how precious it is.

Hi Roniei95 - I remember when you first came to this forum.  Good to hear that things are in a good place for you regarding post treatment life. You have been a great help to many that have followed you into treatment with your advice and support.

Very sorry to hear about your Dad. 

Belated birthday wishes and have a great party when you finally get the opportunity to let your hair down.

Wonderful to hear how well you are doing. It means so much to those just starting,  to read how well we recover. 
So be sorry about your Dad. 
Enjoy your summer. 
Xx

Hi Ronnie  of course we remember you and well done 2 years is a wonderful feeling. So sorry yiur dad passed away but pleased you managed to get an hug.

September I’ll be winging my way to the sun but let me know what date and I’ll have a sparkling water virtually with yiu might even try and gin and tonic  

Posts like yours show people just starting or going through treatment and recovery really help,people to relate that life does go on. 
hugs from me to you. 
Hazel xx