Dad got his pet scan done on Friday ,results are in and nothing found...
Dad's decided not to have any radiotherapy he just can't face it ,the ent surgeon said they'd got all the cancer out with clear margins and even though it's secondary they can't locate the primary after numerous scans including a pet scan.Watch and wait is what Dads opted for,and for the first time since all this shit started in April he sounded happy,upbeat and like he did before the word CANCER was uttered...and I'll take that as a win .Maybe the cancer in his parotid gland will come back,maybe it won't but at almost 80 he just wants to crack on with living whatever time he's got left ,and hopefully it'll be a few years
The NHS have been fantastic,the drs, nurses,the Macmillan cns who was always there at the end of the phone for a chat and the people on here with advice and they're own stories .
Thankyou
he sounded happy,upbeat and like he did before the word CANCER
Hi
It sounds like he made a good decision
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
He seems a lot happier it's just all been too much and he can't face being unwell anymore ...for now he feels great and if that changes then that's a bridge to cross hopefully in the distant future...
If I'm being utterly honest I don't want him to have the radiotherapy but deep inside I know this cancer at stage four with three lymph nodes and primary unknown is more than likely going to raise it's rotton head again and they've said radiotherapy may well be off the cards at that stage ....but I'm not going to burst mum and dad's happy bubble ...they just want normality again for however long that is
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