Hi A long time since I was on the forums here. This might be a long post !
I was first diagnosed with HPV related cancer at the base of my tongue in 2018 and given the all clear in 2019 after chemo and radiotherapy. In 2023 a small ulcer onto side of my tongue turned out to be cancerous and was removed by surgery. This was apparently unrelated to the 1st and likely to be alcohol and smoking related - I gave up smoking 23 years earlier and considered myself a moderate drinker.
In August this year I found a lump on the roof of my mouth which consultants advised was a different type again possibly a rare reaction to radiotherapy 7 years earlier. Major surgery took place in October to remove the tumour and the palate and replace with a flap of skin. This first flap failed within a week and I had a second flap inserted from my arm. I was in ICU for about 10 days in total with a tracheostomy tube which was removed prior to to transferring to a ward. I was discharged about 18 days after the first operation with a PEG in place.
It's now some 6 weeks after discharge and I am bolus feeding 5 times a day with Fortisip 200ml. I was offered feeding via a pump but I rejected this as I had used this method in 2018 and found it very restrictive particularly overnight. Having said that feeding every 2.5 hours even for just 10 minutes is a bit disruptive as well. Swallowing is an ongoing issue and I am not feeling confident that I will be able to stop using the PEG and revert to normal eating and drinking. Consultants say throat has gone through a lot with radiotherapy and now this.
I developed trismus after discharge and can hardly open my mouth. I am working with Speech Therapy but there is very little improvement. I've just had a TheraBite delivered and if I can open my mouth sufficiently will be starting to use that to stretch my jaw.
Oh and almost forgot that my voice has changed substantially and is very nasal. I struggle to speak clearly although this has improved a little Speech Therapists advise this is unlikely to improve.
Not looking for sympathy but advice from any others who have experience similar surgery and post-treatment symptoms:
How often did you feed using bolus ?
Did you get back to eating/drinking normally?
Did your jaw/mouth opening improve ?
Hi PathHill. You have had quite a ride over the years and 6 weeks after discharge is early days. Lots of time for improvement to happen which can take a while. I am similar to you although my cancer was for the jaw. My first occurrence was in 2013, then in a different place in 2019 and my last occurrence in 2022 in another place in my jaw.
I had the same op as you in 2022 when the roof of my mouth was removed and replaced with a graft from my forearm. I had an NG tube in for a week after I left hospital and was not allowed to eat at that stage. I too found the 2 hourly feeds really restrictive and took over my life. However the NG tube was removed a week after I left hospital and I managed to get back to eating although only puree. I would definitely have gone the pump if I had to have the NG longer as it is too disruptive with day to day living. You might have to rethink this if you find it becoming too onerous.
I also have trismus. I did not have a Therabite as it was too expensive but used the method where you put one tongue depressor on top of the other and fit between your front teeth and gradually add more as you can. My doctor told me that it was as effective as the Therabite. My mouth opening did improve a little but I have never got back full mouth opening. I can open my mouth one finger wide whereas normal mouth opening is 3 fingers wide. However I can still open my mouth wide enough to get my denture in and out, brush my teeth and get a spoon in so that is fine for me.
In my particular circumstance I did not get back to normal eating but O.K. with the drinking although I find thickened fluids work best for me. I can now only manage puree but that is due to my inability to chew after 3 jaw ops. My swallow is fine. In your circumstance it may be completely different. You will need to work on the eating under the guidance of your speech pathologist and who knows where you will get as it is all a bit unknown for you at the moment.
Over time I have adjusted to my 'new normal' and am getting on fine. It doesn't hold me back from going out for meals with others although I have to think outside the box when doing this. I have managed some lovely holidays and life is good.
I have become quite the problem solver over time and I know you will too. There is always another way of doing things and still get a good outcome.
Just be patient and take up each challenge as it arises and you will get there.
Best wishes
Lyn
Sophie66
Hi again PathHill. Forgot to mention that my voice has also changed. It is very nasal too and some sounds a bit difficult to make e.g. the sound 'g'. However it has improved over time. Without my denture in my voice is even harder to understand so first thing in the morning my denture is in as a priority. Initially people found it hard to understand some of my speech when I was on the phone but that does not happen very often now. Keep practicing talking as exercising the voice does help. I taped my voice to hear what it sounded like so I had an idea what sounds I had to work on. Initially I tried separating my words instead of giving the sentence a flow but my daughter told me that it wasn't working. She said she understood everything I said when it was in context even if there was the odd word she did not understand.
I just rabbit on now and if someone doesn't understand something they ask.
Lyn
Sophie66
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