Hi, my partner has completed chemo and radio therapy 8 wrks ago. He seems to be suffering with a swollen neck (lyhoedema I think they call it). He's seen the dr yesterday and they said it was usual and he could get referred for 'treatment' but that could take a while. I'm assuming the treatment would be some sort of physio so I'm wondering if anyone has been through this and what they did... he's doing amazing apart from this as he can taste food , although very painful to eat and had a pint of Guinness too
Hi I am like you partner. Around 8 weeks post treatment and have lymphoedema. I would highly recommend a referral to a specialist nurse. My Dr told me just to stroke downwards on my neck to reduce it, but when I got my referral I found that this was just one third of what really needed to happen. No wonder it was not reducing!
I managed to get a referral within 3 days despite being told a 6 week wait.
The main tool is Self Lymphatic Drainage. This is a self massage technique. Realistically there is no medical intervention so the NHS can't do a lot for this debilitating issue. But the massage is reported to work well. I am early days with it so can't really say just yet.
There a private practitioners that can teach him the massage technique and possibly also do it as a patient. Search "British Lymphology Society" and they have a members directory.
In the absence of seeing the nurse I can recommend a video on UTube that was recommended during my referral. Just search "Lymphoedema Support Network" on UTube (I think Macmillan get funny about direct links hence the cryptic clues). You will see the H&N video. The book they recommend is also good. It covers all types and forms of lymphedema , but is an interesting read.
I hope he gets some relief as it is not pleasant.
He's seen the dr yesterday and they said it was usual and he could get referred for 'treatment' but that could take a while.
My lymphodema was minor and I managed to sort it myself. If your partner’s isnt too bad he might be able to as well. I have a post on what I did in my blog here todaymycoffeetasteslikechristmasincostarica.com/.../
Dani
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Wow! Thank you. I hope some of the info helps.
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