Hi, my dad has recently been diagnosed with oesophagus cancer. The tumour is near his heart and lunches but hasn't spread. The tumour is the size of a fist, and he's been told that it is too dangerous to operate. I don't understand this, just because it's close to his other organs. All organs are close together, so how does this make a difference? Anyone else have anything similar or have any advice?
He's meeting with the radiography doctor on Thursday, and they will try and treat him with this and chemo, but the original plan was that radiotherapy would shrink the tumour so they could operate, now they're saying surgery is too dangerous. It doesn't make sense.
Hi, we are going through the exact thing . My partner has recently been diagnosed and they have told him they can't operate . This is due to the cancer migration to more than 7 lymph nodes in his chest and stomach area.
We start chemoradiation on Monday next week.
Just praying that it helps to a degree .
I feel your anguish as I'm feeling the same and no, it doesn't make sense at all .
I'll keep everything crossed for you that his treatment works
Hi Both
Sorry to hear your concerns, just to say that I haven’t had any surgery for my cancer but the Chemo and RT has cleared mine and all my 3 monthly scans have come back clear for the past 18 months
Just wanted you to know that treatment is successful to many, so stay with it, it will be very gruelling along the way
Hope all goes well
Tony
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That’s what we are here for to try and help, once we hear the word cancer we all go into hyper mode on the Community so many of us have different stories
Thanks again for your reply you don’t know how much we appreciate it
hope all goes well
Tony
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I went for surgery for my cancer and the operation was abandoned partway through due to where my tumour is. Apparently it's too close to the major vein behind the top of my stomach to risk taking it out. I'm waiting to hear about chemo back at Christie's as I'm back in the no man's land of not knowing what's happening. Good luck to your father in his journey.
Hi Geo sorry to jump in on somebody else’s post buy I have been thinking of you and wondering how you are?
katson80 I hope they can treat your father with chemo radiation , there are far more treatments available now. Best wishes to you and your family. It’s a horrible disease.
Hi Poppop,
I got through surgery ok. I was in for about ten days. My issue right now, that most of the discomfort has gone, is eating and feeling full or sick, not wanting to eat etc. Get that dumping syndrome which makes me feel awful.
Been to see surgeon post op and he seems ok with everything, no recurrence of cancer cells around the edges of removed Tumor. He has organised a stretch of the scar tissue at the op site to make eating easier. That's on the 1/11.
Got to go to see oncologist tomorrow to talk about chemo which I'm desperate to avoid but I will have to do as they recommend to give myself the best chance.
How are you getting on? Where are you up to right now?
Thanks for your message
Best regards
Geo
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