My mum just told me last week that 6months or so ago she was diagnosed with oesophagus cancer, it has spread all the way down but this is all she's told me, she can't eat and it about 4stone my heart is broken. She won't accept any hospice help and in one breath sais shes been told she had weeks left but in another breath sais there hoping to help her, the cancer has also fractured her spine she's in agony. I feel like I can't accept that she she doesn't have long left till she can accept the situation, she told me one is helping and she doesn't understand, is she bing left to die? Thats is how she feels. Is she in denile? She won't tell me how far it's spread...nothing. I live far from her but have told her I'll visit every Saturday but I'm scared she will die alone, she lives alone in a cold flat but will not accept help. Please help I just don't know what to do.
