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just wish i could be there to sit with you, and give the biggest hug, some times the head wont just switch off, of course it wont tonight, you have been through so much, and still have a big day tomorrow.  how do you prepare for this, wether they leave suddenly or its a slow count down, it doesnt make it any easier, i cant imagine how those 4 weeks have been butterfly, please dont leave our family, all here for you, the fact you are still posting although at such a tough terrible time, is testamount to you, reaching out and letting us in.  have you family and friends around tomorrow, we do have our own journeys but all are so interlinked, no matter at what stage we are at.

i too cant turn my head off tonight, so am trying to tune out unsuccessfully.  you may be on autopilot tomorrow, but sounds like it will be such a fitting send off.  reach out if you need to chat, rant, cry, the forum family all here for you.

as we know, there is no rule book for this , well too many swear words that i cant say about this horrible unknown devastating type, but all here for you.  if there is anything i/we can do, not sure if you have said where you are, just thinking of you and sending love, hugs and as much virtual support as is possible.  hoping you will get some sleep soon

xx jules

Hi Butterfly77,

Oh Sweetheart, my heart goes out to you on what must be a tough night for you.
Don’t be sorry for posting- support will always be available here for you.

Only you will know what feels right for you - there is no time limit for grief. Wishing you strength to get through tomorrow and the days that follow, for as long as it takes. 

Sending love, Debbie xx

I am thinking of you 

sending love 

Tiff x

Love to you, too, Butterfly.

Thinking of you as you face this next challenge. What an amazing send off for Paul. I hope that the day brings you some highs as friends and families share their fond memories of him with each other and you. 

We are with you in spirit xxx

Sending love to you. So sorry you have to cope with this. Thinking of you today .

Hugs 

 Vonn 

X 

Hi Beverley

I’m so sorry to hear today’s the day and I send you so much love and support everything happened so quickly so I understand you don’t feel ready to say goodbye. It sounds like it will be a fitting funeral and I do hope you find the strength to get through the day.  Please know that we will all be thinking of you and sending love and support xxx

Nothing I can say will make it easier for you today or in the coming days ……. but know that so many of us are thinking of you and sending so much love to give you  strength. Stay in the forum as youome to terms with your loss …. we will be here for you as you will be for us.

Geraldine xx

Thoughts are with you today

love and hugs J x

So, so sorry that this dreadful day has come for you. I really hope that you can take some comfort in the love he will have as he starts his final journey.

From one warrior to another, please take care, sending peaceful thoughts and love.