I can’t believe I am writing this but my partner Paul sadly passed away this morning. I am so devastated and in shock. I don’t know what to do and I am going to miss him so much we were told he had 3-6 months and we got 3 weeks
. Love to you all xx
so so sorry to hear this, its so frustrating we cant all meet up and give the biggest hug, get a massive amount of tissues out, and just let go in the company of lovely people that are on this crap journey. this feels such a safe space to let go,
sending all the love and hugs i can xxx jules
I hope you all don’t mind me messaging. I am laying here awake unable to sleep. The sadness and loss is so painful and overwhelming. I don’t know what keeps drawing me back to this forum but I can’t let go and I keep looking to see how you all are. You were all such a great support to me and I will always be forever grateful xx
dont you flippin apologise missus, weve all been laying there and your head wont turn off. you have been through so much, do you mind me asking where you are based, apologies if i have asked before. we are all here for you, thank god we found this family on this forum. trying to stay awake myself as long as i can so at some point i can fall asleep, literally back to back childrens bake off, ridicolous xx
sending hugs and love butterfly, you will nodd off when you are ready xx jules
Hi Jules
Thank you so much. I am based in Kent where are you? Bake-off sounds good and lighthearted. I haven’t really put the tv on xx
buckinghamshire, dont blame you not bothering with tv, absolute crap, hence on the lap top with it on in the back ground. just do what ever is best for you. have you got people around you. i found i did, but only certain people were genuine, xx cant imagine how you feel, what you are dealing with. xx
I think it's the knowledge that we are all in this together through the good and bad times that brings us all back to this forum of wonderful people time and time again. It's a safe place for us all to feel like we belong, that we can come to for advice, can give our support to others like yourself when it's needed the most
Anthony x
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