My partner, Stuart, had an oesophagectomy November 2024. Pathology results indicated that there were cancer cells present however they were graded as low risk and unlikely to come back. However, in October 25 he developed strider which paralysed his one working vocal cord. Scan showed enlarged lymph nodes pressing on the laryngeal nerve which was causing the paralysis. Biopsy confirmed cancer cells present however. We met with oncologist 31 December 25 who said there was an outside chance of cure but said it was treatable. Chemotherapy commenced 16 January for 3 cycles. However, Stuart became neutropenic 2 weeks later and was admitted to hospital. White blood cells back up but his breathing became more difficult and was advised ne needed a tracheostomy. So he has an nj tube plus a tracheostomy. He had second chemotherapy (3 in total) but developed a lower respiratory infection and was in hospital for 5 days. Cancer treatment again delayed. When we saw the oncologist he suggested, due to Stuart having been unwell a couple of times, that he could have the scan before the third chemo or after. His decision. I asked why the scan now. The oncologist said to see if there is any spread. I think my face told him I was shocked as he responded, “You did ask the question!”
I’m desperately worried about Stuart’s quality of life. This is someone who enjoyed his food and loved talking. All spontaneity has gone. Has anyone gone through a similar situation and come out the other end. To be honest just writing this is helping.
