No easy way to say but the cancer is back

Im the same my partner is 16 months out and its on my mind everyday as hes struggles to breathe or has pain everywere, im driving myslef mad with worry

Hi SamanthaN 

Its perfectly understandable to feel this way ..I can’t say I worry about it everyday but I do ask my husband every morning how he is feeling ..which is something I didn’t do before The whole experience does make us all more sensitive about aches and pains .

My husband has a CT scan on Friday ..He mentioned a dull ache and a burning sensation in his shoulder blades ..I was straight on the phone to his specialist nurse .  resulting in a phone call from his surgeon and the scan referral…One half of me is thinking ‘Ok relax , this could be something and nothing ‘ and the other half of me is thinking ‘OMG’ !! ..So even though I’ve felt more relaxed about things recently ..the fear must be there somewhere in the back of my mind .

At the end of the day we can only put our faith in the specialists and hope for the best ..Cancer truly does suck! it scars everyone it affects , even if we do feel like we’re coping well . 

regards J x

O my I hope the scan is OK,  but at least they listened and investigating,  hubby was supposed to have his chemo interview yesterday but ended back in hospital with a chest infection that hadn't cleared up from the other week. Just feel hopeless and wish I could take his pai  away. Thinking of you fingers crossed x

It's awful just a constant worry about what happens next, they've all been through so much, just why can't it be better. Sending you lots of love and hugs 

Sending our very best wishes to you and your husband too ..Sincerely hope matters improve for your husband and you very soon .We’re in this together ️

Regards J x

Thinking of you and hoping the scan brings good news

Jane 

Thank you Jane ..Scan done ..so now we wait ..

Thoughts are with everyone on this thread too 

regards J x

Hi Deb I was just wondering how your husband is and if a plan has been put in place for treatment. And of course how are you holding up, such a worrying time for you. Sending my very best wishes xx

Hi not good,  he's now got extremely low iron, waiting for gp to prescribe supplements,  he's so breathless can't move about without heaving,  not eating, sorry to burden. Just don't know what to do,  he's been in hospital 3 time already this month, he doesn't want to go to a&e. Just feel so helpless,  afraid  and lonely.  

Aw Deb I am so sorry you’re having to go through this and you’re most definitely not burdening anyone. So awful for your husband to be so unwell. Are they treating his chest problems? I hope you have friend a family to support you xxx