Hello my dad is 89 and was diagnosed 24th September 2019 with grade 4 glioblastoma after having a siezure. They cannot operate and have advised palliative care only. He has been on anti siezure meds and steroids and doing well ie still walking and totally self sufficient. He had a huge siezure on 27th dec and was put on end of life palliative sedation , we were told he had hours to days to live . However after 3 days he was still with us . The drs lowered the sedation slightly and moved him to a hospice. He has slowly come round more over the last few days and to a stage where with a nurse helping he was eating and drinking today . Which is great . However time frame wise we have no idea. He was originally given 3-6 months with no treatment. The tumour is in the middle of his head and about 4 cm big .We dont know if he can still walk at all the physios may see him next week to assess him. His short term memory is also really bad since this siezure. He is more asleep than awake but everytime he wakes up he is asking , where he is, is this a hospital? what's wrong with him, is he dying etc. We think when he wakes up after a nap he thinks its a new day.
Has anyone got experience of this or know how long he could have left?
Hi and so sorry you find yourself on this roller coaster of a journey. It's hard to tell exactly what is happening in the brain with the tumour and it does depend how aggressive and fast it is growing or invading the other lobes of the brain.
The human brain is as individual as a fingerprint and no two brains will act the same with this devastating disease.
The steroids do much in keeping the swelling down and will keep him alert but as soon as they drop the doses you will see deterioration I'm afraid. The only consolation I suppose is that he has been diagnosed at a very late age and that he isn't younger. ...I know these words are bittersweet.
The memory part will not improve and seems a bit like dementia he may keep repeating the same questions.
Just make sure you let him know that he is loved and make lots of memories. X
Hi, sorry to hear what happened to your dad. My dad too is 89 and diagnosed yesterday with inoperable tumour and has been referred to palliative care. He only had 2 short periods of confusion so no idea how this will progress. He too is on anti seizure drugs and steroids. Still feel shell shocked with this news.
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