9-12 month prognosis but it doesn’t feel like they’re talking about me

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on March the 4th my world started to become complicated. From out of the blue I experienced horrendous abdominal pain, no warnings, rushed to hospital. Had to have a cholecystectomy. On coming round I was told my GB had perforated and sent home after a few days to recover. On the 22.03.24 I got the call back to hospital to get the shock news… they found cancer. They said they had taken it all away and at the MDT it was decided I would have 6 months of Chemo. 
My first appointment at Christie’s I found out that the perforation was so bad part of my GB had embedded in my liver and another in my intestines. But after CT scans I was allowed to start the oral chemotherapy Capecitabine. I had abdominal pains for most of the treatment but had CTs and MRI which confirmed I had no cancer and it was probably to do with non cell regeneration stopping me healing properly.

After 6 months of, at times, horrible side effects (I pushed through them so I could be free) I took my final dose on 10.11.24. My end of treatment CT scan was booked for 29.11 and final consultation on 12.12. I was shocked enough to find I had a pulmonary embolism at my CT scan but that didn’t come close to the consultation where I was told the cancer was back. As it’s recurring there is now no cure and people in similar circumstances have on average 9-12 months. It felt like they weren’t talking about me….

I start chemotherapy Cisplatin & gemcitabine with immunotherapy in January and as long as it works to keep the cancer contained, I can carry on with the immunotherapy after the 6 months of Chemo. 

The strangest thing is that i don’t feel like I’m dying or going to die. I hope that that is in my favour and that a positive outlook/attitude will be my extension to the average prognosis. 

Has anyone got any other tips to help? 

  • Hi I'm Colette and I'm sorry you're here in all honesty.  My story is similar to yours but different in the sense that I had gallbladder cancer but it was encapsulated inside the gallbladder and was successfully removed during a routine cholecystectomy in 2016. I went on to have a liver reaction and 6 months of gemcitibine and cisplatin (GemCis), I was 46 yrs old at the time.

    When I was almost at the 5 year mark in 2020 and mine metastised in my abdomen, bowel and peritoneal cavity and again I was lucky enough to have surgery. I went on to have another 6 months of GemCis chemo and weirdly like you I developed a pulmonary embolism (6 months of injections was not pleasant).. I. 2022 mine came back again, this time by my urinary bladder. The Christie were asked if the plan by my team at Aintree was do'able and they agreed yes it was so I had another open surgery to remove that tumour.. the Christie are the experts, even my brilliant team at Aintree/Clatterbridge ask their opinions so you're in good hands there for sure.

    No one can tell you how your body will react, this all started for me believe it or not almost 9 years ago (January) and I have had a further 2 primary cancers since as well, a rare ovarian cancer (called mucinous) which led to a full hysterectomy and also Papillary Thyroid Cancer, which I had during the whole beginning of the gallbladder diagnosis.  Every person is different every body is unique, I'm currently now metastatic again with the thyroid cancer and waiting for surgery in the new year. So my advice is follow your body, let it tell you when you're feeling good, let it tell you when you need to rest and listen to your instincts.  Ps sorry for the long post but I just wanted to let you know as awful as gallbladder and it's prognosis is, there is always hope and the positive attitude has helped me as much as all the medical interventions I've had. 

    If I can be of any help just reach out.

    Colette