Diagnosed De Novo this week

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Hi I’m Kerry a Cumbrian lass living in Lancashire. I’m 49 and married with 2 children, a boy aged 13 and a girl aged 11. 

I was diagnosed with IDC (ER+ PR+ HER2-) in October of 2025 after finding a small change, a bulge, in my right breast. 2 small masses were found 8mm and 15mm. The initial plan was lumpectomy, radiotherapy and 10 years of Tamoxifen and I’d just about got my head around that, however, as I had lymph node involvement I was sent for CT and MRI and it was unfortunately discovered that the cancer had spread to my spine - one of the small number of us diagnosed straight at Stage 4 De Novo. Change of plan! 

My cancer journey is just beginning but already I’m finding this forum a huge source of support and I hope as my journey continues I’ll be able to support others. 

I’ve not started my treatment yet but likely to start this week. 

  • Hi Kerry/ 

    I'm not a member of this group but just wanted to welcome you and to say that I'm sure you'll get plenty of help and support from the other members if there's anything that you want to ask.

    Wishing you well with your treatment

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  • Hi Kerry, so sorry to hear you’ve had to join our club Cry 

    I’ve got a large tumour on my liver found by chance in July 23. My primary bc cancer was in 2018. I’m on Letrozole and a similar drug to yours which is Abemaciclib. I’ve had ups and downs but I’m still here having stable scans over 2 years later !  I know it will change at some point but once I’got my head around it (which took a while), I decided to go and enjoy life the best I can. Sure, some days I don’t feel too good but on other days I get out and about and have had many holidays! There’s great support on here and breast cancer now have regular sessions online and face to face if you feel you need more  support. Good luck on your journey xxHeart

  • There’s also new treatments coming out all the time so I try to be hopeful! 

  • Hi Kerry

    i was diagnosed with lobular breast cancer which when I had MRI was found to be larger and mastectomy was now the treatment. I had just started to get my head around it when I had a scan and like you they then found it had spread to my spine so de novo.  I have been on treatment for a year and my breast tumor has shrunk and I am now being recommended for mastectomy again.  So hopefully you will have a good response too.

  • Aww kerry I'm so sorry to hear this. I've just been diagnosed today with stage 2 hormonal breast cancer. It's also in my lymph nodes so I need mri and ct scan. Have they said what your treatment will be now that its spread? Im also a mum of 2 girls 9 and 14. Im 41 

  • Thank you  so good to hear that you are responding to treatment and other options are being recommended. I’m just waiting for my first lot of scans after 3 months of treatment so positive stories like yours really help. 

  • Hi  it’s such a shock getting a diagnosis and the wait for further results is just torturous. I hope you get some positive news from your scans and aren’t waiting too long. 

    My treatment is mainly hormonal. I’m having a monthly injection of zoladex which has put me into menopause, daily Letrozole tablets that mop us any eostrogen that might be floating around and a targeted anti cancer drug that I take 3 weeks on, 1 week off. I’m also having calcium and vitamin D tablets and a monthly bone strengthening injection - it sounds a lot, it is a lot, but so far all been quite manageable - few side effects and menopause symptoms. 

    I honestly hope you’re not joining our stage 4 club but if you are believe me there is hope, it may not feel like it but there is and lots of support here. Keep us posted if you can x 

  • Hi ladies, had my 3 month scan results today and I’m still stable. Blush I feel so grateful for these targeted drugs. I have been on first line now for 2.5 years and they don’t want to see me now for 4 months. I was really expecting the worse today, as they initially said I could get 12-18 months on this drug.  Both of my big toe nails fell off  this week Weary but I don’t care! Lots of hugs Xx

  • This is great news and gives me hope! Thanks for sharing with us. Hope you’ve got something nice planned to celebrate x 

  • I had a big glass of wine when I got home! Heart️ Hope your treatment is going well xx