I also posted this on bone cancer room but this group appears to have some more traffic as it were and am just looking for - well I don't know really an still searching
Hello fellow community just need some assurance if there is any
I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer nearly 3 months ago. First time diagnosis - the wind was very much taken out of my sails when, after a PeT scan I was informed I had secondaries in my bone - small volume in lower spine and hip but non the less secondaries. So very quickly I have had to absorb that I cannot be cured, prognosis is very difficult to come to terms with.
I started on Letresole pretty much straight away and fingers crossed none of the side effects that some others appear to have had. One round of Zodalex - no side effects apart from led legs the following day cleared the day after.
However I have managed one cycle of Ribociclib. During the one week break the blood tests for one part have not held this has been the same for 5 weeks - having weekly blood tests. So am taking Letrosole only at present. Count has been coming back down week on week but they want to wait for further reduction then hopefully will look to reduce dose (was on 600mg a day) and look to put me back on Ribociclib
sorry for long bit above now for the short bit - Is there anyone her that is in my or a similar position. I have not had a Mastectomy, nor chemo so being treated with just tablets (well tablet once a day). just feel a bit isolated well a lot. any advise would be appreciated
Stronger together
Hi again IamLyn
I replied to your post in the secondary bone cancer group and I was hoping that you'd get a reply from the members of the secondary breast cancer group as it's a much busier group. By replying to you it will bump your post back to the top of the page where it may be seen again.
You could also try starting a new post and put what specific advice you are after as sometimes that will help you get a reply.
x
Thank you
Am still waiting and hoping - you got to have hope.
Blood level for liver still high so yet another weeks wait so anxiety levels are high at the moment.
Fingers crossed someone will answer my original post
Hi IamLyn, I just wanted to say something so that you don't feel so isolated. I was also diagnosed recently with secondary breast cancer with mets in bones (left pelvis and upper left femur), first diagnosis and major shock. It seems like the prognosis is good for us and I keep reading lots of research coming from the States about successful remission of breast cancer bone mets so keep on in there! I'm not having the same treatment as you (started FEC chemo last week and having denusomab injections for bone strengthening). I feel fine so far, except being fed up with having to use a stick to walk. I'm hoping that will change soon but I'm not sure if I'm just being naive about that. Maybe someone else on my treatment combo can give me an answer...? Good luck with your treatment. You are not alone, although I understand how you feel!!!
Thank you so much for you kind reply.
I am up and down at the moment, physically I am ok its the mental side I need to get my head round and yes its early days from diagnosis. Have scan next month. Pesky bloods are still high from the Ribo (chemo tablet) so have not been able to take them for 4 weeks - weekly tests have shown it is coming down so fingers crossed they come down enough when further test Tuesday so I can start back on them at a lower dose.
I also am having bone strengthening as well one round so far - was ok to be honest apart form led legs 24hours after but this cleared 24hours after that.
Once more I fully appreciate your response it has made me feel better. Very best of luck also with your treatment.
Much love
IamLyn
Hi IamLyn
I'm glad it made you feel better. It all sucks really doesn't it??!! The emotional side is probably the hardest to deal with. I haven't told my children about the secondary part of my diagnosis (I don't see the point of scaring them!) although before I knew that it was secondary (so before my PET scan results), we had told them about the breast cancer diagnosis. They have dealt with that very well although today my daughter unintentionally made me cry by saying that she thought that everything happened for a reason...! Bless her, she was trying to be positive and ended up having to run into the house (we were in the garden) to get me some tissues!
I was also in tears on Friday because our local hospice got in touch to see if I wanted to meet with a nurse to talk about support! I don't know about you but I'm aiming to get to at least 10 years, by which time I'm hoping that there will be a cure or at least a way of living with this chronically without dying from it (like the way HIV is now treated). It may be naïve, I don't know, but it keeps me happy and I say that whatever works for you is best.
As a final word of hope, my friend told me about her sister-in-law who was diagnosed with advanced lung cancer and told she had 18 months to live - that was 28 years ago and she's still going strong. She told everyone that there was no way she was going to die and her goal was to see her children married. I don't know if being positive helps you to live longer but I guess it can't do any harm, right?!
I found the stories on this website gave me a lot of hope for the future too: http://mbcn.org/blog-3-columns-masonry/
Best wishes
noswad1
Hi IamLyn!
have only just read your post as I haven't been on for a while.
just wanted you to know you have a fellow traveller in me.
just a year ago ,routine mammogram showed something ( not a lump, nothing which would have been noticed by me) so lumpectomy which resulted in much larger tumour being removed than had been anticipated so told to come back two weeks later to give consent to mastectomy and full lymph node clearance. Meanwhile,to shut me up ( I had been nagging them about what if it has spread etc) they arranged bone scan and ct scan.
bone scan clear but ct scan showed it in my bones. Pretty much all over. At that point told that they don't do further surgery ( even though I needed it) as they can't cure me so they will treat me "holistically" .
referral to oncologist just awful. Standard combo of letrazole and Palbociclib and keep those fingers crossed. Sour faced nurse told me to get my bucket list done.
at this point I went private as I felt very let down .
ive since had mastectomy and radiotherapy and just on letrazole. Also Denosumab injection for bones.
as my brilliant oncologist says we don't need to throw a whole arsenal of weapons at it straightaway . Palbociclib may be needed in the future but not yet. Have faith in the letrazole !
im feeling fine....fatigue and sometimes joint pain. Good days and bad days. The nights are worst but I am doing my best to stay positive. I have had some great messages from others on this forum. Everyone understands
thinking of you my chum
Boogirl
Hi Boogirl
Thank you soooo much for your response. Yes its still early days for me. I am on Letrasole for the moment. Blood test tomorrow and hopefully back on the Ribo if bloods hold. I have not been able to take them for 5 weeks as blood result all over the place. I have also had one round of Zodalex injections for bone strengthening and am due next round soon.
I am also feeling fine, led legs some days but I am doing on average 8k steps a day - like walk round the park before work watching the chicks and baby swans at this time of year.
What a curve ball we have been thrown. You seem to be on similar to me as well. Scan next month -ooh no this month its July and then3 week wait for results so will get them mid August.
My oncologist seems ok for now well the two meetings I have had with her. No plans for Mastectomy at present, will wait and see what CT scan show,
Hope you are well and keep the faith
Much love
Lyn x
Hi noswad1
What a lovely positive response it thank you so much.
I wish you the very best with your treatment and yes we have to remain positive about the future.
Early days for me at the moment but I am trying my best I will get there
Much love
Lyn
Hi all. I don't come on the site very often... Usually only when I'm about to have (or have just had) my 6 monthly CT scan and review.... Scanxiety! Yep, due now!
I was diagnosed with primary breast cancer in Feb 2015, and immediately twigged that my thoracic spine pain was probably something to do with it too.... Unfortunately I was right. I had chemo first, then surgery (lumpectomy and lymph node clearance) - I was lucky, my onc is quite a forceful individual and said if the surgeon says no, she will say yes she is having it! I had radiotherapy on my spine 2015 - this alleviated the pain and gave a little bit of regression. An area on my hip divided opinion, but as it started to ache a little, it too was blasted last year.... Although it still aches, so it is probably an old running injury I can feel (although I don't dispute there is cancer there).
My cancer is ER+ and HER2+, so current treatment is Tamoxifen, Denosumab and Herceptin.
Initially I found it difficult to manage fatigue, and put most of it down to cancer fatigue....however, some of the fatigue was side effects of simply not sleeping due to Tamoxifen sweats! I have acupuncture (provided free in my chemo unit), that has been a revelation! Like someone has finally flipped my on button! If it's available, try it!
I'm hoping you're sensing from this, that once you get your head around things (the psychological part is the most difficult to deal with), apart from the regular trips to hospital for 'bone juice' (if there's an emoji there I can't delete it!) Life goes on! I'm fairly active, I work (part time only now.... Gotta be some advantages!
I walk my dogs, have completed the couch to 5k within a few months of rads on my hip.... And l probably feel the best I have in years! My onc is a great believer in staying both active and positive, and I am too.
Until I'm told otherwise, I will think of this as a chronic illness which is being well managed. I remember the dark days when I first got diagnosed and it's all so raw, but eventually, you kinda just get on with it.
Hope this helps.x
Hi Barbar
Thank you for taking the time to respond and for your positivity.
So I also had 'bone juice' Wednesday led legs today.
They have switched my meds so am still in Letersole and Palbociclib. The other one (RIBO) was doing my bloods no good.
So now an anxious two week wait then blood test and hope I cope with it.
Thank you well; done for the 5k
Stronger together
Lyn
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