Lumpectomy + Axillary Nodes Clearance Done!

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Well, I've made it!  I had my op on 4th March 2026.  It was quite scary because there were a lot of us in the waiting area at 7 am.  I had to go to ultrasound for metal mark wires to be put in because the type of one of the two cancers I have wasn't showing clearly so my lovely Consultant needed guidance.  By the time I returning to the Waiting Area all but two others had gone to theatre.  Suddenly I ended u sitting there on my own - last lady sitting/ standing!

Due to me recently also having complications after contrast dye, and being poorly after my op along with having a drain, I was kept in for 2 nights and discharged yesterday.  

My problem now is that I am not a "sit still / do nothing person"!  I am usually on the go from the moment I get up at 7 in the morning until I retreat to bed at 10.30 pm.

My son and daughter are on Mum watch - but I keep getting told off "what are you doing now?". "Why are you doing that - sit down"!  

It is sooo hard not being able to do anything but I am sooo lucky my children are there for me.

Just waiting for dressings clinic appointment on 12th March then my three week post op review and get the lab results and possible further treatment plans.  

Good luck to anybody facing their op - try chilling and meditation when you go to the anaesthetists room - that is what I did and apart from saying hello, confirming my name / date of birth, I cannot actually remember anything because I just chilled, closed my eyes and thought of a beach and sea wave noises.

  • Hi

    Well done on completing the first part of your journey. I'm sorry that you had complications but I'm glad to hear that you are now home and wishing you a speedy recovery from your surgery.

    I had breast cancer 10 years ago and despite having mental health problems I coped with all my treatment (lumpectomy, chemotherapy, radiotherapy and herceptin) well. However, my Mum aged 87 years has recently been diagnosed and I'm falling to pieces. Thanks for your lovely comment on my post about bras by the way.

    I know it must be annoying that your chidren are being over protective, myself and my sister, particularly me as I am an anxious person, are doing exactly the same! It's a fine line and difficult to get right. Both of my parents are slowly losing their independence due to age and health problems. Since the beginning of this year they have both had illness but refuse any help and insist that they are fine. We are trying to help as much as they will let us without making them feel less independent and it is difficult for both them and us trying to adjust. We just love you and care about you and are trying to do our best. I hope this helps you see things from our perspective.

    Best Wishes

    Soulgal

  • Thank you - I know and understand about son / daughter caring especially as it all must be so very worrying (my Mum had BC and mastectomy many years ago and I remember just how worried I was about her).

    Trouble with us parents, especially as we get older, is we are used to be independent and looking after ourselves - it becomes difficult to accept help even if we know we need it!

    Take care and thank you x