Hi newbie here

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Hi for the past few days I've suffered with a stiff neck & crampy arm just thought I had slept funny on it. Last night in the shower I discovered a 1 inch growth from bottom of arm pit to side of bust.. very shocked, obviously got my partner to check and he agreed it's definitely there.. I just put it down to swollen lymph nodes.. Saw GP today, she said unlikely to be a lymph node was a little unsure on what it was but there is a definite lump on the breast wing and would refer me to the breast clinic and to expect an appointment in 2 weeks. I had a call a few hrs later saying I had an appointment in a week...now I'm worried I feel sick.. don't want to tell my family yet as I don't want them worrying..do you get the results on your first visit. I stopped the pill 3 weeks via doctor's advice ago as I'm now fully menopausal. I've had no symptoms at all it just feels lumpy and quite sore when I feel it.

  • Hi Dee1974 welcome to the forum and I can appreciate how worried that you are. I think it is the not knowing that is worse than anything. The 2 weeks is a guide but some people get seen sooner and some just after the 2 week period. At least it's not so long to hang about for you. I imagine that at this stage when you go to clinic they will do a mammogram. They may then want to do some ultrasound scans and take biopsies from the area. In light of having biopsies taken getting the results on the day is unlikely. However, dependant on what they see they sometimes have a conversation with you about any suspicious they may have from what they can see. At that point nothing is 100% certain until those results come back..Stopping HRT on top of all this is just awful for you but also important. I do hope you get on well at your clinic appointment and please do let us know how you get on as we will be thinking of you..sending some huge big hugs your way for now. Gailx

  • Hi. I know it’s easier said than done but try not to worry. You say you were on the pill so it could just be hormonal rather than anything sinister?

    You will have a mammogram and ultra sound at the clinic and they will biopsy anything they see then you will get another appointment to go back with results. 

    Please let us know how you get on. 

  • Thankyou for your reply, I've told my daughters and "it's there" there's nothing I can do to change it,it is what it is.. I'm prepared to take anything they me on Saturday..then I'll take it from there.. hopefully it's good news if not I'll cross that bridge when it comes to it..I've spent a lifetime of raising a family of 5 children as a single parent and I can do this xx 

  • You absolutely can do this. You are stronger than you think. Will be thinking of you xx 

    “it is what it is” is my favourite motto. We cannot change it and we will deal with it.