Hi all, Im new to the group.
So my 5th, last session of Rad finished yesterday.. hooray. Sadly my 1st session jaded the rest as was not a good experience at all. They assumed that i knew what to do, where to go etc and well, it all got a bit much and overwhelming.
I think the reality set in too, wow! I really did have cancer (grade 1 luckily, found early and removed).
So I cried and continued to do so til Mon evening when I decided to go off sick the rest of this week.
So I'm better in myself and actually sleeping a little better and no tears since Mon.. yayy.
Im due to go back to work Tues, Wed Thurs next week and i had phone review today and was told to be kind to myself.
At the mo, my boob is tender to touch but no oain as such. Skin is good. Still tired but less so. My worry is that the tiredness doesn't really set in for 2-3 weeks post Rad I understand. So im just not sure if to go back to work next week in case i need more time off in 2 or so weeks. Or just stay off and be kind to myself. But then have lots of guilt as feeling ok.
Do any of you have any words of wisdom?
Thank you in advance x
I can relate to your comments about the actual sessions, I think the staff are so well drilled it can seem obvious to them what comes next etc..... I recall have tears too.
I had 15 sessions & was very tired when they finished & continue to be although finished about 10 weeks ago.
As you say be kind to yourself if you can afford to financially & take some time to relax & recover both mentally & physically.
Hope you feel better soon
Best wishes x
Hi, I had 5 sessions of radiotherapy too - thankfully although my lump was Grade 2, it was small and hadn’t spread to my lymph nodes.
I would seriously consider taking some time off work if you can, as any side effects you get will kick in in a few days - it’s about 2 weeks since my last session and although touch wood my skin has been ok, I have recently started with side effects of fatigue and tenderness in my breast and armpit. Also I’ve found emotionally that after weeks of hospital appointments, my brain is now catching up and have had some bouts of low mood and tearfulness.
Be kind to yourself and give your body and mind time to recover.
Thank RetroRose,
Im sad to hear youre intis group too and suffering but pleased youve written back. Its almost I need reassurance that its ok to be off work. I work for the NHS so lucky enough to be able to have sick time and be paid. Its more the impact it has on your colleagues, especially in a small team. Ive got to phone in Monday as to whether Im going back in Tues, but I probably wont now.
Thank you again and I hope you gain your strength soon..
Take care and best wishes..
I totally get your concern for your colleagues, I work for a local authority and my workmates are having to cover for me and when I do go back it’ll likely be on a phased return.
Everyone is affected differently, but you have to do what’s right for you.
Sending a hug back - we will get through this! x
Well its been a while since I logged on, but my goodness, i'm so glad I took the week off. I'm unsure if actually I was as tired / fatigued as I expected but that could be cause I was off work. I hope all is well with you and thank you for your support..
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