Hello Everyone. I’ve recently been diagnosed with ER + HER2+ lobular breast cancer with spread to axillary lymph nodes and also subcarnal lymph node. So stage 4…I was originally referred to the breast clinic early August, so it’s been a stressful few months. But I now have a treatment plan for chemo every week for three to four months. Feeling a little bit lost, but trying to stay positive
Hi, I am in round 4 of my chemo and although it hasn’t been a happy experience, I am getting through it and wanted to reassure you that it is doable . Staying positive and keeping distracted really helps me and try to remember this time will pass and you are not alone. I found not putting too much pressure on myself to feel positive all the time helped strangely and it’s ok to not want to be where you are at right now . It can feel overwhelming especially at first but the healthcare teams are so prepared and I found the side effects were managed pretty well . I hope that helps and some people sail through with next time no side effects !
Good luck - you’ve got this !!
Thank you!!! It just all seems a bit overwhelming. I was feeling the best I’d felt for ages in July, no symptoms whatsoever.. then in August… But must stay positive and take small steps forward.
Whatever cancer throws your way, we’re right there with you.
We’re here to provide physical, financial and emotional support.
© Macmillan Cancer Support 2025 © Macmillan Cancer Support, registered charity in England and Wales (261017), Scotland (SC039907) and the Isle of Man (604). Also operating in Northern Ireland. A company limited by guarantee, registered in England and Wales company number 2400969. Isle of Man company number 4694F. Registered office: 3rd Floor, Bronze Building, The Forge, 105 Sumner Street, London, SE1 9HZ. VAT no: 668265007