Lumpectomy or mastectomy

Hello 

I have just had a mastectomy last Wednesday. I am doing really well . No pain at all . I am 65 and not big breasted so people won’t really notice . I am very happy with my decision. I just wanted it gone . Everyone is different and you need time to think it through. Sending lots of hugs x

I am 86 and had a mastectomy in April plus lymph nodes removal. I had never been in hospital before except for a bunion many years ago so was very apprehensive. However it was much easier than I imagined. I just stayed over night and had no real pain, just a bit of discomfort and soreness, They glued the stitches so did not need a dressing or drains. I stayed overnight and within a day or two was able to do most things. I had 15 radiotherapy sessions which were not pleasant but quite doable and was a bit more tired and sore after but 2 months later I am doing all my activities, I am out most days. I was discharged on Thursday but can contact the breast clinic if any problems.  I have had a soft prosthesis but am having a silicone one fitted in a week or two. I have been quite happy with my appearance and no one can tell.

Hope this gives you a bit of hope, my biggest fear was that I would come out of it unable to be active but am feeling about the same.

Good wishes,Sue

Hi Rosie 28 thank you for your reply. I think  you're right I need a bit of time to think. I have two trains of thought, the lumpectomy is a smaller op but worried that further surgery could be necessary whereas with mastectomy it's done with. I'm fairly big breasted so would be lop sided but I'm sure I can live with a prosthesis. I'm glad you're doing well after your surgery. Keep on getting well. Thanks again for your input.

Hi Sue. Thanks for your reply and it's great you've done so well after your mastectomy. My biggest fear is that I'm not feeling very strong mentally or physically at the moment, a bit of a wimp, if I'm honest. So good to hear how you've coped with your surgery and treatment. Although I know several people who have had lumpectomy ops don't know anyone who has had a mastectomy so your input is very helpful. Keep on getting well and keeping well. Many thanks.