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Pleased to read that you managed to talk to your husband. I totally agree with the saying it out loud thing... it's just so surreal. I feel like I should be waking up from this nightmare!

I'm sleeping by listening to guided meditations on Spotify. There's one another member recommended and I've found it really helpful. This said I'm waking up super early and bang it's there so getting back off to sleep is nigh on impossible. 

The 10th does seems like a really long wait. Have you questioned it?

To be honest they rang me at work to make the appointment so i cldnt really talk, was inly when i looked at thw calendar i realised it was still 3 seeks away. Unsure on who to ring to query the wait.x

Hello

i do feel for you. I had scan 8 days ago and was told it is probably cancer seeing consultant tomorrow. I found a lump but never thought it was going to be serious . My husband has taken it badly as his mother died of breast cancer ( a long time ago) so treatment much better now . Let’s follow our journeys ? I think it’s good to share thoughts . Positive thoughts . Sending hugs x

Its hard to deal with others emotions, i swear i was keeping it together better until i told my husband then itcreally hit me, the possibillity of somethibg terrible. And i know people will say oh dont say it but this year it has been one thing after another so its hard not to think negatively. Im glad things are moving quickly for you and hope thar the consultant can answer all your questions and hooefully make you ferl more in control. Thats it really feeling out of contol.x

Have you received written confirmation yet? Maybe just ring the breast clinic and ask if there's any possibility that they can bring it forward.