Waiting results

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Hello I’m new here and feeling very emotional.

i have recently had mamagram,scan,biopsy and clip inserted.

my nurse then came back to me and said there is a probability and more likely that we may be treating breast cancer if not surgery.

has anyone else had this said and what we’re your results.

i get my results tomorrow and I’ve hardly eaten for 2 weeks I just can’t focus.

once I know I can deal with it.

nany thanks xxx

  • bless your heart, your on the same road, as me - further on a little bit I've had ct and mri scans amnd a PET scan, am hoping to start chemo in the new year. the waiting is agnoising, but you have us here to vent too- I have triple invasive breast cancer, grade 3 in lymph node and stage 2 breast..... the medical jargon i still do not understand but the people here are lovely xx

  • Thankyou for your reply. I’ve lost so much weight with worry that I can actually see the lump.i feel sick to the stomach and scared of how I will react. I’m worried about taking time off work it’s just all over whelming at the moment.

    im so sorry to hear your going through it.

    i sincerely hope you push through this smoothly without to much side effect xx

  • Once you get the results it will digest more 

    I thought every ache and pain was something serious and it’s just my mind playing tricks 

    please keep me posted as to how your getting on

    and try and have a lovely Christmas with your family x

  • Hi Duffy09

    Welcome to the forum and I am sorry to hear that you are facing a breast cancer diagnosis.

    Wishing you the best of luck with your results tomorrow.

    Best wishes

    Daisy53

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  • Hi Duffy

    Sorry you find yourself in this position. I know how much it tears us apart waiting for results. 

    As others have said, once you have a plan things feel a little less out of control.

    I think I too had to wait a couple of weeks and then went in with a family member to get results.

     Sending you a hug x

  • I've found it slightly better since I had my surgery (2 days ago) definitely found the waiting for the plan the worst bit. Sad about how my breast now looks, but find some days I cope a bit better.

    Waiting is the hardest bit for me, now have 3- 4 weeks waiting on the post op histology, margins, lymph biopsy etc.

    Expect some bad days and hope for some good ones.

    I resorted to medication for mood and insomnia and I am sleeping a bit better now.

    Do whatever it takes to get you through, and don't be afraid of letting others know how hard this is xxx

    I'd love to say try and have a nice Christmas, but tbh I couldn't give a C**** about it this year Shrug

  • Bless you it must be so difficult I hope you have a good support network around you Heart️ once I get through tomorrows results I can push on to the next appointment and so on..I’m sure I will have sad day plus angry days but day by day the imposter will be leaving my body and if I focus on that it won’t give it oxygen.I wish you all the best xxx