Hello all,
I have been diagnosed today with Grade 2 invasive ductal carcinoma hormone positive. Have to make the decision about whether I go for breast conserving surgery or mastectomy. I would be interested to hear how other people decided. I have also been referred for urgent genetics as I have a strong family history. I guess that any results from this may affect my decision re surgery. In a strange way, Looks like radiotherapy but hopefully not chemotherapy. it is a bit of a relief to know what I am up against. The lump was picked up on a routine mammogram five weeks ago.
Hi Roisin
i was diagnosed with Grade 1 IDC two small areas. her2- and er+
i was offered either surgery and had a lumpectomy and sentinel node removal on the 03/05. Results 18/05. Been told pathology could change diagnosis results. It doesn’t and I’m on to radium and hormone tablets.
I have a strong family history too so onco type test is also being done. Not sure if that’s a genetic testing
hope all goes well with your decision the waiting for results is the absolute worst. X
Hi Army
Thanks so much for replying. I feel very alone today and just had a little breakdown as its has properly hit me. I am such an ugly cryer. Sounds like we are pretty similar disease wise. It is so hard to process everything at the moment. the prognosis seems fairly positive but all the same its one hell of a shock isn't it. I don't know how to react or what to do with myself. I didn't sleep much last night as my head was buzzing.
Absolutely agree. One day everything is ok next I hit a brick wall but each day is one day closer to fighting this. That’s my only hope. The results waiting is the worst part.
I try and watch gogglebox before I go to sleep as it’s lighthearted and takes my mind off thinks for a little while.
alone is so right as everyone battle us different and being a single parent I haven’t even got someone to talk to on a night time. So it is alonely disease.
friends text or call and at times I want that then I don’t.
just hope there is light at the end of the tunnel and we get through the other side
big hugs and lots of love x
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