Reaction of diagnosis by other people

Sounds like he's having difficulty knowing how to handle you diagnosis and treatment.  Maybe you should suggest meeting to discuss how you both feel about it and how he can support you. The fact that he's still texting you suggests that he cares but either way at least you will know where you stand, you have enough to cope with.

Good luck. I hope it works out you need people around you who csn support you xx

I'm not in that position thank god, but you've only be dating him 3 months, so definitely a face to face conversation and if you don't feel 100% supported then I'd personally be saying goodbye, your going to have a lot to go through and you'd be a lot better on your own dealing with it and not having to worry about a  partner who cannot support you, so sorry if this sounds harsh, I hope he does understand and maybe he just doesn't know what to say to you..Good luck  xx

Thanks x

Thank you. Yes, you need people around you that are going to fully support you. I'll have to have a proper talk to him xx

Yes exactly that, my partner of 10 months has done nothing but moan moan moan about his own problems  the last facetime call we had he was actually going to day goodbye without even asking how I was  I said don't you want to know how I am? Having had Mastectomy and reconstruction just three weeks ago.. I have told him I need a break from our relationship he said, sorry you feel like that mmmm... xx

So sorry to hear that. You need to concentrate on yourself. I hope you have people around you to support you as well as everyone on here. Send you a hug x

I do think it's difficult for partners and family when we are going through this and men are generally hopeless at the best of times. I suppose it depends if he moaned all the time before or if he's just doing it now as a deflection . It's out if order not asking how you are though.

Hope you have some other friends and family for support xx