Newly diagnosed

It is very scary when you're first diagnosed and can't see beyond those words.  I had a different experience to you - post-surgery I had radiotherapy (it was decided chemo wasn't required). 

Do you have another appointment arranged or are you waiting for one?  It was a lot to take in at first.  The breast care nurse was really helpful in helping me to work out how to tell those closest to me, being able to give a clear message.  It must be very hard with a five-year-old.  

I found that in subsequent appointments I was drip-fed information, which helped.  I think if I'd have been given everything at once I would have been completely overwhelmed.  

Hopefully you'll be able to see the medical team again soon, and talk to a breast care nurse or similar. They can also signpost you to other sources of help and support.  For example, I have found my local Maggie's Centre so valuable.  You can talk about what's happening with others who understand.

I hope this forum helps.  I didn't really engage with it until after all my treatment.  I think I was on the 'conveyor belt' and just dealing with the next appointment and next bit of treatment.  It was very much living in the moment.  It's only now that I'm beginning to process everything. 

Someone else may have had a similar experience and be able to reassure you.

Take care,

Diane.

I’m so sorry that you find yourself here. We all have different journeys along this difficult path that we all travel, but I am sure that you will find support, reassurance and advice from many other the other ladies on this forum. Xx