Hi all, recently diagnosed with Invasive ductal. I have an op on Wednesday to remove lump and lymph nodes to check. I've been ok up to now. Just can't take it in. Why me, I look after myself try to keep fit. I look on facebook and everyone is carrying on, and why shouldn;t they. My running club and walking club. I live on my own, just could do with a big hug right now.
I don't have full results yet,still waiting on HER2 as it was borderline so has to be sent away. I'm scared to ring tbh. Its ER+ and 15mm. I think what if they find more after the operation. I know alot of you are in worse positions and I'm feeling a bit sorry for myself. Friends say ring, but do they really want me crying down the phone. Sorry just feel like putting into words to people who will understand. Liz
Hello LizCar I think most of us feel shocked and sad but go easy on yourself. Take one day at a time. My way of dealing with it was to make it my mission to spread the word about mammograms after 70 to everyone I know. My cancer was invasive and 9 cm. Right up to the mastectomy I couldn’t feel it. Breast screening picked it up but I know ladies who don’t know they can ask for a mammogram when screening has finished. Hope your results are good. Keep in touch.
Hi LizCar
Welcome and sorry to hear that you have been diagnosed with Breast Cancer. There is no need to apologise for feeling sorry for yourself on here we all understand what you are going through and we’ve all felt that way from time to time.
Try keeping yourself busy and do the things that you love. And most of all be kind to yourself.
Wishing you the best of luck on Wednesday.
Best wishes
Daisy
Hi Lizcar, it's a scary time and ok to feel sorry for yourself. I found keeping busy was the best thing for me, so I continue to work and I walk a lot. But we are all different. Try and be kind to yourself x
Hi I enjoy walking and cycling unfortunately I have to self isolate in this lovely weather. Normally I would have gone for a long walk or cycle ride today. Find it hard staying home. I've cleaned the house and done the ironing.Thanks for the reply
Thank you for your reply. Well done on spreading the word on mammograms. I found the lump myself. Funny enough my mammogram was due this year. Perhaps they should make them twice a year, it may have been picked up earlier then.
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