Hi, newly diagnosed breast cancer

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Hi all, I found my lump on Mother’s Day, went to gp next day then had my referral to breast care unit, had my appointment on Wednesday 24/3, mammogram and biopsies under ultrasound taken, From lump in breast and thickened node in arm pit,  due back on Tuesday next week for results and plan.  It’s all so surreal. I’m 51, and a nurse so maybe knowing too much is what’s making things worse.  My main fear now is that it’s spread, due to the thickening found on ultrasound of a lymph node. I can’t help thinking that... I know nobody can tell me what will happen, but just needed to say hi, to those dealing with same issues, I have no concerns about treatment, I’ll do everything that needs to be done,, just scared of the actual results, the anxiety is horrendous, and I hate this waiting.  

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi, you are in the same place that most of us have been in.  As there was only one lymph node they could see was affected it means it has probably done its job and stopped the cancer from going anywhere else, that is IF your results come back as cancer.  You will be sent for a CT or MRI scan to make sure it hasn't spread elsewhere.  Please keep in the forefront of your mind that breast cancer is very treatable nowadays and that you have every chance of living to an old age,  The waiting seems interminable but once you have your results and a treatment plan it is a roller coaster which does,eventually, come to an end.  Look after yourself, sending virtual hugs.

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Oh bless you, Dee

    Yes, waiting for results is horrendous but you can only wait it out, I'm afraid.  I don't feel there's anything anyone can say that makes it any easier.  Like you, I'm a nurse, although now 70yrs old and retired.  I also suffer from stress and depression, just to add to the mix so I feel I can relate to all that you have mentioned.

    I found, being a nurse, helped me in some ways but, as you say, maybe 'a little knowledge ...'

    I really do wish you well and your worst fears don't materialize, of course.

    Sending you lots of {{{Hugs}}}

  • Thank you so much Lesley for your reply, I never thought of that with regard to the lymph node doing it’s job, hope so.  hope you are doing well, and agin thank you xx

  • Thank you for your reply, it’s good just to make contact with those that have dealt with or dealing with BC, xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to Dee1f

    Yes, 3 more radiotherapy treatments to go and then its Anastrozole for 5-10 years and bisphosphonate infusions every 6 months for 3 years.