To have the op or try alternative

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Been diagnosed with cancer, 3 small (largest 1.5cm) nodes of cancer and Grade II DCIS in right breast with pre-cancerous cells around the nodes to a 4.1cm area.  Lymph glands in armpit clear.  Seems that the only treatment on offer is to cut it out and give radiotherapy.

I was happily going down the route of “slice and burn” when I was told that a 6cm lumpectomy would be the slice (this is almost the size of a tennis ball)!  Even though a date was set for the op I had to cancel.  I felt I was being propelled into it both by the ‘team’ and family.  All were ‘for it’ and ‘doing it in my interests’ but I just could not commit.

In checking out websites I find that most of the blogs are to do with secondary cancers and I am more than ever nervous at being cut.  I have however given myself a month to check out other therapies to settle my mind.  I would dearly love to talk to ladies who have been in the same predicament.

Is there anyone out there?

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    Kerrycake, a beautiful and moving tribute to Chloecat and you are right, she was incredibly brave. Somehow, there is a piece missing....

    i am so very sorry about your friend...

    with my thoughts 

    Heather

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    You are so right to celebrate Eileen's bravery. One day we will be able to treat this crappy disease in a much gentler way thanks to people like her.

    Wishing your friend a calm and peaceful farewell.

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    Sad news, RIP Chloecat 

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    This is sad news. I only met her once at the London meet-up and was wondering how she was doing as her treatment choices were less conventional than most. It was only just over a year ago when we all met up. Pleased she had all her family around her. 

    I’ve not posted anything on here in ages but am ticking along. Fed up with the side effects from the AIs and fatigue but otherwise all well. Is there a meet-up planned at all anywhere? I couldn’t make the Birmingham one. 

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    There’s a WEALTH of information out there from Australia and USA being mainly at the forefront of Google.  My advice is go with your team of experts. They have done this a million times and research in the UK gets closer, we hope, to eliminating/ catching this disease early.  It’s your body of course and you must make your decision based on the best quality info you can find. I do not regret having mastectomy, chemo (rotten tho it was for a couple of months) and radiotherapy. I really wish you well with your ultimate decision. To delay, maybe to err….x