First chemo on Friday, a little advice please

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Hi everyone, 11 weeks after my 2nd surgery I will be starting chemo this Friday. I have been invited to a menopause fair event at a hotel on the Saturday. I have been told that the effects of the chemo might not kick in till the Monday and I just don't know if it's a good idea to go to the event if I feel ok. I know they want you to try and live as normal as possible but would this be a bad idea. I just don't know what to do about things like this. I don't mind if I have to ware a face mask or is that overreacting. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks 

  • Hi Louise

    I had 8 cycles of Chemotherapy and the days I felt best were the day of the Chemo and the day after. I used to get mine on a Thursday and the side effects didn't usually show until the Sunday. I would say go!

    All the very best with your treatment and recovery x

  • Hi Louise . Wishing you well with your treatment. How are you feeling about it all? 

    i finished 12 sessions of chemo in August this year. I very much carried on as normal. Obviously just take precautions with hand washing etc. for context I have a school aged child and slept next to her all the time and I never contracted anything and I was on the worlds strongest chemo drug. 

    I would suggest you drink lots of cold pressed juices and keep yourself healthy and you will be just fine xx 

  • Thank you for your message, it really helps to get my head round the unknown.

  • Thank you for your message, to be honest I've never felt this scared of something before, and I backpacked round Israel and Egypt in the 90s hahaha. You have given me some reassurance thank you. I was feeling like my life is going to stop for 6 months and I'm going to become a Hermit. But listening to you guys gives me encouragement to get through. 

    Thanks 

  • I’ve only had chemo through one chemo cycle of 3 weeks plus the first of the next. Sat in the chair 4 times. Hardly time to work out a pattern. My day is Friday. The big ones I don’t sleep on the Friday because of the steroid taken 6 hours after . But I feel Ok. However Sunday and Monday are a bit grim. I feel like my bladder is full of shards of glass and I get cramps in my stomach. Today I’ve walked round Filey no problem. I’ve had a nap but I feel Ok. 

    I’ve decided that I will do what I want when I want. I’m keeping a diary so I can spot a pattern if there is one to help me and OH plan. I refuse to put my life on hold for 6 months. 

    Nobody knows how you will feel  because we all react differently. I think we just have to see how we go. 

    Three times! What did I do?

  • Thank you for this, I was in Filey at the weekend because I wanted a weekend away with my kids before I start, we stopped at the Dolphin holiday park. It was fantastic. I got my feet in the sea and a lovely sunset cliff walk. I will definitely keep diary, have you slept ok on the other nights? 

  • I felt exactly the same, I was so scared because chemo gets a bad rep, life on hold for a year, off work for a year, sat at home ill etc etc but let me tell you I didn’t have one day off work, still did the school runs twice a day, still went to my weekly Pilates class. I did suffer with constipation but got medication for that. I suffered with severe hayfever but I still did everything I normally did, even had a day out (non alcoholic) drinking with the girls. 

    Go into it with a positive mindset and you’ll be just fine xx 

  • I will definitely try my best to stay positive. Thanks 

  • Yes I sleep Ok. I’ve increased my fluid intake a lot so I do get up through the night but I just read if I can’t get back to sleep. I’m 68 so I sleep when I want I’ve nothing making demands on my time. 
    I’m eating the same as normal,   No sickness. I’m not upto 100% strength on the drugs yet though. 

    Three times! What did I do?