People can be so cruel

I am so sorry that you experienced that, I'm angry on your behalf. I would like to think that those 2 women are in the minority of small minded people who should learn that if they have nothing nice to say it's probably best to say nothing. I am sure going back feels awful but if you can then you should, hold your head high & enjoy your swim. Do you have someone that could go with you for support? 

Hi Helen I can't believe you have been treated so badly!  what nasty women!  I always live by "put yourself in their shoes"   It sounds like it's not in your nature but if that had happened to me I would have confronted them so they would have felt so ashamed. Maybe in a few days you will feel different and say "I'm not going to let them get away with it"  Shelly has suggested a friend go with you next time.  That is a really good idea.....do it.

Thank you both for your support it means a lot. If it had happened to someone else I could have been very vocal but when directed at me it just crushed me.  Sadly it's members only and I have not been going long enough to strike up a friendship,  it was one of my aims when I joined but not anymore

 Helen2021 , that is just sheer cruelty on their side, and I am so very angry on your behalf! 

Is there an organiser that you could approach with this? I consider it shouldn’t go unreported.

and yes, if it were possible to have someone go with you (maybe by special permission of the club/pool owner?) then I would and be encouraged to hold your head up high.

oh, and do approach the charity ‘knitted knockers’ as they produce scrunchy-style falsies for swimming, free of charge as well as softies. 

heartfelt hugs xxx

I cannot believe they would say such a thing. I actually read a similar story not so long ago on my community Facebook page, exactly the same as this written by the woman’s husband. I could honestly cry for you, we should be able to do what we want no matter what they look like. They are not setting a good example to their children are they.

I know it’s easier said than done but please try not to let it get to you, you are beautiful just the way you are xx 

Hi Helen2021 , just had my reply wiped! I think because I mentioned a social media group and included a screen shot from the website. Ok, will try to remember my message… it was mainly to express my anger at those nasty, small minded individuals. Anyone who uses the work ‘freak’ to describe a person is despicable. I also think your club would surely have some sort of code of conduct? I’m sure their comments would breach any club’s rules about behaviour towards other members. If/ when you feel able, I hope you can go back and report the incident. And I really hope you can go back to your swimming, with or without any prosthesis - you shouldn’t feel pressurised into anything. 
There’s a group called flat friends uk - you can search for them online. They have a social media group but if that’s not for you , they also apparently have face to face meet ups. There’s an email address on the website to find out more. Just a thought . Sending love and a big virtual hug, HFxx

Helen2021 you beautiful brave lady, you wonderful amazing courageous woman. The ( see you next Tuesday) people (if you know what I mean) can't take that away from you. I so wish I had been there for you, to rip a strip off them for their despicable behaviour. I would definitely go back and rub my one tit in their faces. Sorry I'm a Yorkshire Lass and extremely protective. Come on girl when you can, get your big pants on and go back. I wish they could have surgery to remove their hateful side. I love your bravery and perseverance. You are fantastic, please don't let them take that from you. Love and Big Hugs