I finished my treatment a couple of weeks ago, radiotherapy for IDC breast cancer. It all went ok and I am so happy it is all over. It’s been an emotional roller coaster definitely and I have to say all the NHS staff have been wonderful. This horrible disease seems to be very stubborn when it comes to my family and is not giving up unfortunately. My brother was diagnosed last year with prostate cancer and had treatment which went well. He is ok now. We lost our parents to thyroid and prostate cancer. Now my poor youngest sister has been told she has lung cancer stage 4 after battling breast and throat cancer for the past 18 months. It’s unbelievable and very cruel. She has fought so hard and is still fighting, she refuses to give up yet to it. I am finding it so hard now to try and support her as much as I can. We live a long way from each other now, so can not see her as often as I can. I also feel so guilty that I got though a lot easier than she has. She is our youngest sibling, and I am very protective of her. What on earth do you say to her now? It is really hard. Hugs to you all. Xx
So sorry to read what your family is going through, that sounds very tough. I think it's quite natural to feel a level of guilt when you have had an “easier” time than someone else, but maybe it's best not to try and compare. All you can do is be there for your sister, on the phone when you can't visit. You might also think about giving the lovely folks at Macmillan a call, just to chat things through, if you and your sister need a little extra support. They really are wonderful with guiding us through these tough times. The number is 0800 808 0000. Best wishes
Hi Orchid23
I'm so sorry to hear about your sister and what the rest of your family has been going through. Cancer really is a cruel disease.
Sending hugs xxx
Daisy53
