Surgery next week

Hey Mummy.M

i have yet to start treatment. But what I do know is that it’s ok to not be ok. I would perhaps liken it to a new chapter? Each chapter will build your story. It’s ok to have a wobble, you are human facing challenges. 

Another thing I know is that reaching out for support can be hard to do, but don’t stop doing it. Everyone here is full of love, support and caring. Do you have a support network? Perhaps also speak with your BCN? 

Be kind and gentle with yourself, you deserve it.

Sending caring thoughts

Hi Mummy.M so sorry you're feeling anxious about your surgery, which to be honest, I think is pretty normal. Like you, I had chemo first and then surgery, about a year ago now.  It was, in hindsight, easy than chemo in many ways, but indeed a different kind of treatment with different side effects. Hang on to the positives - it's removing your cancer, it's quicker to recover, and this really is moving towards the last phase of treatment.

best wishes 

Hi

i am having a mastectomy on Thursday and feeling exactly the same

I have taken a one day at a time approach from the start but now beginning to realise  what a long process this is going to be. 
Going to keep myself busy the next few days to stop the panic bubbling up. I am hoping that it’s going to be a bit like chemo for me , in that the anticipation and not knowing was worse than the reality. 
I’m sure once I’m there it will be okay. 
I also find that I’m putting on a brave face for most people. My husband is the only person who really knows how scared I am. Trying to reassure other people (mainly my 80 year  old mum) also takes its toll. 

I am trying to look at it that at least surgery is an option, and for that I’m thankful. 
But it’s not easy.
Wishing you all the best

Thank you everyone. All the posts are helpful. It's great to hear from others and take on board what you say. The ups and downs just keep coming and things you didn't expect. But yes I'm near the end and there are positives to take. Love to everyone x

Hi Mummy m, I had my surgery last week 17th. Waiting for dressing to come off. Had a lumpectomy.  Surgery went fine and now waiting for surgery results 4/5 weeks. I'm  just taking one day at a time. My advice is really be positive,  take each day at a time and keep up with happy thoughts. We are on a long journey not of our making and I for one want this to end positively and have my life back. Good luck in your journey and remember you have a lot of support on in this group. Take care xxx