Finished treatment, can’t stop crying

Lilykat..firstly don't think that because you are 70 you aren't worthy of the treatment and care...you are as entitled as the rest of us on here!

Emotionally, you have been through the mill, something I've only just started to discover, so allow yourself to let go if you need to.

Huge virtual hugs 

Dicha

Never EVER put age as a reason not to be treated!  You are worthy and have probably paid more into NI than many others and we all deserve a chance at life.  I surmise you may be feeling lost now that everything has finished. I know a friend of mine was worried when they gave her the all clear and said no need to see you again except if you have issues. She said she felt ‘abandoned’ and didn’t know why.  It will pass. Be kind to yourself (I’m 68 but in my head I’m 27!!!)  

You have just spent nearly a year getting rid of a horrible cancer. Probably a lot on your own like i did. I remember finishing my treatment i didn't want to ring the bell and just get out of there. I drove home alone and just felt empty. I went for a walk alone and if i hadn't done that i  would have been an emotional mess which doesn't look good if your a bloke. I could cry at the drop of a  hat and your story and journey has been well worth it to a lot of your family and friends .Kind regards

Hi Lilykat, lovely replies already from the folk here, agree with all that’s been said. Just wanted to add, hormone treatments also mess with your emotions, and that’s on top of the enormity of a cancer diagnosis. Shocking at any age. 
You may have seen this already, but I find this article helpful and return to it from time to time. Usually makes me tearful but sort of in a good way, if you know what I mean. 
Sending love and a big virtual hug your way, HFxx 

www.workingwithcancer.co.uk/.../After-the-treatment-finishes-then-what.pdf

I can’t WAIT to ring the bell!! Only 3 more to go!!  

 Thank you so much Dicha x

Thank yo so much Tavares. I didn’t ring the bell, felt so lost. I hope you’ve rung your bell by now …. Hugs xx

You should be able to cry regardless of gender BWB. Yes, I faced treatment alone but my friends can’t understand why im not doing cartwheels. I can’t understand it myself. I feel abandoned and there is still so much uncertainty. Im lucky to have a Maggies centre at my hospital. They have been amazing and continue to support me for as long as I need them. Every good wish for you x

Thank you so much HappyFeet. I’m going to look at your link now. Thank you for that hug xx

Thank you so much for the link! After another day of wearing a brave mask in work I have cried into my pillow. Having read this it actually makes sense as I know I am not alone, it's normal to feel this way. Good luck to everyone x