Hi all. I received the date for my mastectomy yesterday. Although I've known it was coming, I was diagnosed 9mths ago, it was still a shock.
Part of me knows I need the op, but the other part of me doesn't want it.
I feel quite angry with ppl. They're saying how good it is that I've now got the date after all this time. I know they mean we'll, so I thank them & sort of agree. But I don't feel relieved. I don't want to lose a breast.
This will take a few days for me to take a few days for me get my head around the fact that this is really happening now.
Is this a normal reaction? I have so many mixed emotions.
TBH I-was more than happy to get rid of the offending article (mastectomy left breast) but I guess it can also depend on your age and if you choose to have reconstruction. I didn’t and am quite happy using a prosthesis in my bra. Sending you best wishes, you’ve had a long wait…
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