Hello I'm new here and thought I'd share my mum's current situation in the hope of helping someone else or getting some advice.
My mum is 55 , always been in great health and about 8 months ago she woke up one morning with a large mass in her left breast. I'm not talking a tiny lump, I'm talking a large, hard mass overnight. This continued to grow until eventually it broke through the skin and caused an ulceration fungating wound.
Fast forward to now and she's still in good health, aside from understandable general weakness, she's otherwise fine. Symptoms do not extend from the affected breast. She has had an ultrasound and core needle biopsy done. The biopsy came back as left breast cancer with spread to 1 underarm lymph node. She recently had a full body CT scan done and we are waiting for the results upon that.
The cancer has not yet been named or staged, probably because the CT scan hasn't been looked at yet. What confuses me is the mere fact of how this condition showed up. This to me does not sound like a typical breast cancer, to turn up overnight as a large mass with no other symptoms or nipple changes etc. I did put forward the notion that it could be a malignant Phyllodes tumor to the doctor but to be honest they have not been listening to me throughout this situation. Phyllodes tumors do have the ability to turn up very quickly and create a fungating wound.
Also, they have suggested that this may be a locally advanced breast cancer (stage 3) which is what I am hoping for and agree with if it's not a phyllodes tumor. Because she has no other signs of spread aside from that lymph node that is giving me hope. I'd like to know your thoughts upon this that would be greatly appreciated. My heart will sink if this CT scan shows spread, because it genuinely doesn't look like that with the way she is, and the breast itself is very locally advanced with a wound, but it doesn't seem to go further within the body. No bone pain, lung symptoms or anything like that. I do at this point believe if we act fast, this can be curable. I am only 25 and certainly will put up a fight for an otherwise healthy mum, I need her.
Thank you and hope this helps someone.
Hello barbiegirl0151 sorry to hear about your mum, and I can understand the worry whilst waiting for CT scan results. Sometimes the initial biopsy can be unclear about the type of cancer, and sometimes a diagnosis of 'non-specific' cancer is made. Has your mum been told what Grade the cancer is? This determines how fast growing it is and therefore the likelihood of it spreading, but things like the size of the tumour will also be taken into account when determining the Stage and treatment plan. My cancer is Grade 3, with spread to one lymph node, but the CT scan was clear and I've been told that it is curable, as are many breast cancers. Once the medical team have all of the various results they will then be in a position to decide on a treatment plan, although bear in mind that these can sometimes be subject to change following surgery, further biopsy, test results etc. It can also sometimes seem like it is taking a long time for the various tests to take place and for results to come through but they are necessary to ensure that your mum gets a treatment plan that is tailored specifically to her. Hope your mum gets her CT result soon and that it is good news x
Hi Lala Lou,
Thanks very much for your reply and you've given some very useful advice for me.
So far there has been no grading and no type of cancer named. It is a rather large tumor with a fungating wound and spread to 1 lymph node. It seems to be agressive in one area which is the breast. She has no symptoms otherwise which is promising such as any suggestive spread symptoms.
I have put forward my concerns to the Dr about starting treatment asap and they seem to be happy to do that which is good. Fingers crossed my mum's CT comes back with no spread to other organs.
Sorry to hear about your current situation but also good news that it is curable. My heart goes out to you and you will beat it. X
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