Feel so alone

Hi DBL I’m so sorry to hear that you’re going through all this, it’s all so emotionally draining and to add to that what you must be going through with your partner is dreadful, have you family near by that could help you. 
Just remember you are not alone, we are all here to lend a friendly ear and help each other through this.

Sending you a massive hug

Diane xx

Thankyou Diane, I do have family around me but I don't want to burden them with all thats going on with my partner and then turn them against him. They would be a big support but its him who I really want it off and sadly haven't got. Thankyou for your kinds words xxx

Hi DBLDBL

Oh dear sorry to hear your situation, unfortunately men sometimes just cannot handle situations like these so the easy way is to walk away. Currently you need support not another child haveinng a tantrum to look after

You are strong enough to deal with this,  honestly you will come through it with a couple of battle scars but just take some legal advice as living as common law husband and wife certainly changes things, even if you just listen and take advice..

I went through a divorce, sold a house bought a house had to find a job went back full time with a 6 month old and 2 years old,

Discuss it with people who will listen not judge,

You can do this x

Hi DBL, can’t imagine how you must feel, the one person you want to turn to for support has turned away…..I understand you not wanting to ‘burden’ other family members, but I’m sure they would be devastated if they knew you were struggling to do this own your own. I realise he may be scared also and is pushing you away because he knows he can’t handle it, but you must put yourself and your daughter first and foremost at this time.

Maybe find one family member or friend who  you can confide in without them being too judgmental of the whole situation. 
This community is here to listen to your concerns and offer support through all this 

Sending you good wishes and hugs xx

Thankyou all for your kind words it's so nice to know I can reach out and gwt advice even comforting words from you all and knowing you all understand how I'm feeling. I'm just thinking get Monday over with see which way my life is taking me then deal with my relationship side  that's all I can do head is spinning and can't take no more in at the moment xxx

Hi DBL,

you are never alone on this site, plus if you are feeling sore then there’s the helpline too, 0808 808 0000, and if it’s out of hours and you really do feel bereft then Samaritans are there too at all hours, they are not just for ‘those’ times. 

Waiting for the results really is one of the very worst times, we all remember it and it tears again every year for mammograms results. 

Sending a big hug xxx