Husband wants to separate

I am so sorry to hear this. Sending massive virtual hugs; I can’t start to imagine the hurt and shock. You can and will find the strength to navigate through this somehow but in the meantime..... bihugs

So sorry to hear that, it seems like differing with you emotional needs.  I hope you can both work together, perhaps with some on-line counselling?  I'm a man and am aware of my wife's state of mind, I've Multiple Myeloma but still find it hard to tune in to her after 30 odd years.  Maybe you could try individual therapy?  He's had a lot on his plate and you both deserve some sort of happiness

Your story has similarities to mine, I chose not to have chemotherapy also, for a very small percentage. My husband though was never supportive, but again had a break down when my treatment ended and that’s the time I found I needed some tlc. I did ask my daughter if she thought it was guilt that made him have the breakdown, she said no he’s not remorseful at all. But your husband was supportive at first, so I wonder if it’s just been to much for him? Lastly though you need to put yourself and your needs first, have you got someone who could drive you to your radiotherapy sessions, I felt ok to do the half our journey, but my sister insisted on taking me, which was lovely. Have you sought emotional support for yourself too? Take care lovely! Xx