Brave the Shave

Hi, yes I feel the same as you. I did write an enormously long post about it but didn’t put it online, partly because I would be descended on by the majority telling me I am wrong. I think the Brave the Shave campaign is great. Many people who do this are encouraged by people who have/had chemo. I knew I would lose my hair and it wasn’t a surprise when I did, and I wasn’t upset about it. Without campaigns like this we would lose so many of the things that Macmillan provides, so I hope it continues for a long time.

Hi Kateandbiz, I love you hahaha, thank goodness that someone else can see the amazing benefits of these fund raising events and not think about themselves. So many wigs are made for children with cancer from this event. How can anyone begrudge that? Without McMillan I seriously would have gone under as I had unbelievable support. I have written a blog but I'm strong enough to brave the back lash!!!! I totally respect the anti supporters view but I don't have to agree. It was so good to read your message. Big hug, Tracey xx

I’m really glad this post is here. I was only recently diagnosed (15/7) but Macmillan have been so supportive both on the phone, face to face, by email and on this forum. I have no preference as to how money is raised, I am just starting to shed my hair - yes I’m a bit sad, but rather lose my hair and give myself a fighting chance at life. Who cares if someone wants to shave their head to raise money for such a worthwhile cause. I don’t find it insensitive at all. 

Hi Holbox, thank you so much for you wonderful message. You have the right attitude towards your cancer. Believe me it really does make a massive difference and by embracing your treatment I found that the time does go quicker. I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis, is it Breast cancer? Yes you will feel rubbish at times but on those days just go with it and if you want a cry then do. I found sticking to my normal routine in a morning kept some normality in my life ie, get up, shower, dress and bfast, then I'd have a rest on the sofa. I finished treatment October 2018 but I had the same fighting spirit as you. I also listened to a Cell Therapy meditation app morning and night on my phone, it really did help. Keep in touch, I'd like to know how your getting on. Big hug from one strong Warrior to another strong Warrior. X

Hi Meditation,

yes it’s breast cancer. G3, S2, triple negative. I listen to meditation on my phone to relax me. My chemo started 1/8 and I take one day at a time, resting when I have to and still going to work when I can (averaging 3 days a week) helps keep me normal. I’m trying to let the cancer nip in and out of my normal life rather than take it over and it seems to be working so far. Positive thinking hey! I have a cry every now and then, but then I pull my big girl pants up and get back to being me. 

You must have felt a great relief at the end of your treatment, it’s going to be a long journey but I’ll get there. Keep in touch Warrior xxx

Hi Holbox 1#3, Thanks for your message. You have my upmost respect for still working. You have a great mental attitude and that's essential with this vile disease. Let the Doctor's take over looking after your body and you look after your mind. I'm having nipple reconstruction next week as a day patient.. They agreed to do it under local anesthetic or I wouldn't have had it done, as I feel my body has been through enough. Meditation is so powerful and relaxing. Please keep in touch. Your already half way there with your attitude, big hug from one Warrior to another Warrior, XXX

Good luck next week, let me know how you get on xxx