It seems I'm a patient now!

Happy Anniversary for tomorrow Moomy  I was just lying here thinking today would’ve been my 23rd wedding anniversary and musing as to how I feel about that given I’m waiting for my imminent decree absolut. But one thing I definitely know is we didn’t have what you and your old man do! I hope you have a wonderful celebration with your family xx

Awww, that’s sad, Anna12345, it’s tough to think of so many relationships failing.

We’ve had ups and downs over the years, I’m not easy to live with, that’s for sure!

I wasn’t sure we’d make it this far, to be honest, as hubs has been so poorly this year, but hey, we have! And tomorrow lunchtime it will be 52 years. 

Today’s plan is to be ready for when son and son in law arrive, they’ve been touring the coast of Wales in their campervan, having glorious weather too, we hope we can bbq and daughter says she plans to make a cake today! Hubs’ wheelchair will hopefully be comfy for him when we spend time in the garden, fire pit is actually almost ready and we have an electric throw for hubs too if it gets chilly. And there’s a outdoor power point in the garden! Perfectly planned!

 Hugs xxx

So its a party to gatecrash at moomy then! Enjoy sounds lovely. X

Moomy's is the best place ever to gatecrash. I love all the food she produces for Hubs. Her fairy dust is also very potent.

A lovely evening, bbq, fire pit, we all enjoyed just sitting and chatting for hours, only just going to bed now though hubs has been in bed about an hour 

Hugs xxx

Glad it all went well moomy xx

I had a bit of a set-to with my husband recently, totally due to how I felt about the prospect of 15 radiotherapy trips. He flounced off and I was pretty annoyed. Then one of his daughters turned up and took my side. Offered the whole family's help if I felt I needed it. Was amazed. Husband doesn't know that encounter took place even. Told him when he returned that in a good marriage communication is important, which he did take on board. Being poorly or having someone close in the family being poorly does have an effect as it completely changes everything. No-one likes being ill obviously or having to rely on others to help, even if they are willing to.

Sometimes you just have to clear the air, Venicelagoon, and I hope it has worked for you both

hugs xxx

Glad your celebration went well, many congratulations for today!!! xxx

Here we all are….. yes I know, in the dark! hugs xxx