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So sorry to hear moomy  and sending hugs. What date is your anniversary, thinking of you x

Jay

Thank you seaspirit44 and Jayhay , it’s this Wednesday. 

Both kids are coming, I’m taking them to Whipsnade Zoo (I’m a fellow) and then for dinner we are going to support a neighbour who has just embarked on a change of career, they have bought and had converted, a trailer to cook. They did their first spell at a classic car meet in Warwickshire and will start a regular spot at our local pub with the first date being Wednesday. 

So something to look forward to as well as remember. 

Hugs xxx

Hi moomy , just popping in to say will be thinking of you on Wednesday. Sounds like a nice arrangement, glad you’re spending it with your lovely kids. Grief is an unpredictable creature, we can think we’ve found some level of acceptance/ adjustment and then it’s all back again in a wave of emotions.  Early days, really, in terms of your loss of dear hubby. And of course your precious kids are a constant reminder of him which is lovely but also must in some ways magnify the loss as you feel for their loss too. 
Anyway I’m rambling, just wanted to send a love and a big virtual hug to you. Xxx

 moomy I'll be thinking of you tomorrow my friend. A really lovely idea spending it with your children. Huge hugs 

Sally

Will be thinking of you all on Wednesday.

Hugs

Daisy53 xxx

Sending hugs for tomorrow moomy  xx

Sending hugs too. Here's hoping a day full of memories with family helps. I empathise as my mum is having a hard time and as a daughter the last 9 months have been hard going. Still taking some days one at a time. X

Thank you all, dear caring friends.

a quiet start to my day. Had a tough night trying to get to sleep, thinking of 54 years ago. It makes me feel very quiet and rather introspective. I remember at this stage in the morning, worrying about my brother who was going to drive to collect one aunt and my grandmother to attend our wedding, but was rather late starting off. Then a friend of brother in law was due to wash and set mine and my bridesmaids hair, he did an amazing job. I was worrying about fastening my veil as my hair was fairly short, he gave me lots of well-lacquered curls and anchored the veil superbly well (if you walk on carpet the veil can really drag) And I did feel the drag as my Dad walked me down the aisle of the church, but thanks to Steve’s work it was all ok. 

Daughter plans to get here around 11 or so, we will meet son at Whipsnade and spend the day trying to make new memories, especially for them as I think they are both struggling at present. Then back here, maybe supporting a neighbour who is embarking on a new career selling Indian street food from his new venture van at our local, or maybe a Deliveroo. Will play it by ear. 

Hugs xxx

Moomy

I hope you have a lovely at the zoo with your family. Xx

Enjoy your day making new memories.x