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Sometimes our ‘friends’ just don’t understand or get it, LondonLass......maybe time to give that one a wider berth?
Another ((((hug)))) xxx
Moomy
Don't be upset LondonLass you know you have us,
I am listening !
although its not nice to hear that someone doesn't understand what you have and had to go though, but really pretty horrible for them not to understand.
Hi Sal I’m sorry your friend upset you unless she’s being there probably no idea xxx
Thinking of you xx
Judith
Think this is me today, as neighbour in Flat next door had some very loud drunk female banging on the door between 3:00- 4:00am.
She kept repeating to someone on her mobile” I’m so angry I’m going to tell police he has a gun in Flat”
Two people in block called the police and she was as escorted away.
Police asked her why she was there making a disturbance at 4:00am and she replied “ I’ve been out and had a few drinks” She was as looking for a man who was as not in the flat and when neighbour said he’s not here, she refused to believe him and stuck her foot in his door and was even more angry when he closed the door on her foot, this took place before police arrived. (she actually told police about that too).
Think she was looking to score, I felt so angry as wanted to open door and swear at her, but resisted as live on my own and she may have struck me. Never had any issues with next door and his friends hope this is a one off.
Neighbours ehh !!
Thanks ladies. I know I will always have you all. Its just sometimes I want/need my friends to be there for me Life can be a really lonely and scary place sometimes!! Xxx
Oh no, I hope for you it was a one off
or it would be...
I hope you managed some sleep and had a good rest today
Hi Sal, some people are just idiots and maybe it's time to tell them that. You have so many lovely people around you, family and friends thta really love you, that you really don't need the idiots in your life. Right at the beginning of all this, some of you may recall that my sister said some very stupid things to me. She has done this for many years, to me and others and too many poeple have let her get away with it. I decided that this time, with the situation so serious, she could not be allowed to get away with it. I haven't spoken to her since and although I will be pleasant when I see her in the future, she will never be allowed in again! This has shown me that we need genuine people around us, time is too precious to waste on idiots or nasty individuals. You deserve much, much better than this Sal. Just cut her loose! Xx
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