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That sounds like a nightmare. I moved my Mother into sheltered accommodation near me. She had Alzheimer's I later discovered. It is about the money as well. This is elder abuse, them accusing you is just protecting their own backs.
A camera sounds like a good way to catch evidence. Xxx
Apologies for being slightly late with this BUT Better late than never…….
Well Done Fruit Loops! Over 43000 posts and still going strong! So proud of every Fruit Loop that has replied too or just read through these pages! Each and every one of you has a Special Story to tell and TOGETHER we can get through ANYTHING!
Love and Hugs to all. Today is the 6 year Anniversary of this thread! Where did that time go?! Can’t wait to celebrate with you all. Sal xxxx
Better officially start the Celebrations!
Wishing EVERY Fruit Loop…..
Thank you to everyone for reading, posting and supporting others for 6 years! Whether you are a regular poster or someone who just passes through now and again, you have ALL made this the very Special thread that it is! The Success of this thread is down to ALL of the Fruit Loops, old and new! I am proud to call each and every one of you a Friend and I know I wouldn’t still be here today if it wasn’t for the help, love and support that I have received from you all.
I know I have taken a back seat for a while and I would like to try and start posting more regularly again, but I know whether I’m here or not this thread goes from strength to strength. Continually offering advice and support to newbies and the returning Fruit Loops! This thread is full of such amazing people, I wish I could name you all but my memory really isn’t that good! However you know who you are! If you know who LP is you are a true Fruit Loop! If you don’t…..don’t worry he’s not far away especially as we have…….
CAKE! (Wait for it………….)
Did someone mention cake???
Hi LP, Good of you to join us! Hopefully in the morning we will hear from other Fruit Loops! Right now I need to hide the cake and get myself and LP to bed!
Catch up with you all in the morning to Party!
Night night Fruit Loops xxxxxx
Party? Party?? Party???? cake? Cake?? Cake????
HAPPY BIRTHDAY AWAKE thread, (and LP too of course!)
And mega congratulations to the genius who began this!
Hugs xxx
Moomy
Happy anniversary of being awake haha. Just been replying to someone on another posts who is working and suffering. 6 mths after diagnosis and treatment for breast cancer is early days. I have realised that too.
At this age and being retired it's not as hard as someone younger, for me anyway. Although I have noise box here at present and he was awake last night. Kept going to the toilet and slamming 2 doors. I am not complaining, just the way it is.
I like the lucky pants, we are lucky, so many of these useful and necessary threads were started years ago. Thanks to Macmillan and all the contributors.
The sun is shining .
Happy 6th Anniversary of this Awake thread and thank you Londonlass for starting it. I only dip in and out myself at the moment but you fruit loops are always there for me when I need you and I hope you all realise I am here for you too.
Grogg I am shocked by the revelations about the so called carers. How can anyone go into such an area of work if they don't have compassion and patience?
Sabrina22 I empathise with the lady on the bother thread. Even though I am over a year since RT finished?, I still have issues with letrozole side effects and pain. I am finding it tough going working and finding time to be kind to myself and rest. I was awake most of last night again.
I must get up and have a shower now
My son has carers and we are lucky he is with a good care agency. They are so vulnerable, I keep a close eye, he is medically vulnerable as well. It is well documented about problems and abuses in the care industry, for disabled and elderly. Many are not visited by family and friends.
You are right though, it starts at the top. Good supervision and open door policy helps. When my Mother ended up in a Nursing Home I could see how it was, I visited her most days. When I couldn't visit I tried to get friends to visit. She had 10wks from diagnosis to passing away.
Sorry but it's a can of worms. I could probably write a long essay about the care industry. My son is lucky, I have 2 friends whose Autistic grown up kids are needing to be moved dye to failures in care.
It is sleep related in some ways, they are in a very sad state.
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