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Nice one, Northerner ! Snowys Mum , Karma will get them in the end!
Night night Fruit Loops, sleep well and stay safe, plenty of sleepy fairy dust for all who wish, wherever
hugs xxx
Moomy
@Snowys Mum, you are such a kind lady. Don’t sink to their childish levels! You just carry on being you! Although perhaps don’t be so quick to cover shifts for them or offer lifts. I think they both need a lesson on teamwork and respect. Please don’t let it get you down though, as one day it WILL come back to bite them on the backside! Just hope you are there to see it! Xxxx
@seaspirit44 As you can see I am unable to tag either? What is up with this site? Just thought I’d let you know it’s not just you xx
In other news, I got a call today with a date for my Mammogram and Ultrasound. It’s on Tuesday at 3.30pm! Now I am 99% sure that it’s scar tissue, so WHY is it that 1% seems to cause so much bloody anxiety!
Anyway right now I just need to sleep. So I have taken a few handfuls of moomy Fairy Dust, which will hopefully help me sleep! Night Fruit Loops xxxx
Now work that out seaspirit44 I can Tag on this post??? Xx
Violetsniff I just tried what you suggested re:pressing the return button and it worked! Although in my previous message it worked like it used to, you know when you start typing and a list comes up for you to pick from? No idea what’s going on, but thanks for letting us know there’s another way of tagging people! Xxx
Snowys Mum oh confront ! I did. We had job evaluation and even if you stayed the same you could appeal grade which i was very open about doing. Asked a colleague who I considered a good friend if she wanted to join me but she said no point as you don't win, Well I did win and had thousands in back pay and she went full on into organising others on same grade to also be uplifted. When told no you should have appealed and made your case they "demanded" I have my win over turned as not fair. Again told no because I'd made my case. It was such a stressful time for me and after submitting my appeal I was diagnosed and off work for 5 months but decided my grade was wrong so deferred till I returned to work. I then had to set out my appeal evidence - a whole lever arch full and be questioned by a panel of 4 including head of HR, Job evaluation and 2 union reps. My Director also had to try to defend why I wasn't out on grade I was claiming. I could take 1 person with me. Most took union rep but I took a colleague who I found outstanding in meetings I'd been in with her. I heard later when we walked out of room the panel just said "that's a clear win". I confronted colleague and told her she acting like a jealous bully and she just shrugged. We had to work together in same team for a couple more years till I retired. I was told I could make official complaint about her behaviour but I chose not to. I had said my peace and enjoyed my back pay! She has to live with everyone seeing how much of a bitch she was! I took early retirement, my successful appeal impacted my pension as I was on final salary scheme.
if it was me I'd "thank" them for having my back and let them know everyone knows they not team players !
Tuesday not too long to wait LondonLass but the worry gremlins will be feasting.
I'm awake as had 2 glasses of wine last night at 6pm and it's given me heartburn and woke me up.
You struggling to sleep too? I'm about to find a Mr Davis story to listen to on YouTube
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