When I knew I was going to have to have a mastectomy I did attempt to find a surgeon with a good aesthetic record.
This wasn't me being vain by the way, I was told by my GP, the breast consultant, the BCNs, the regular plastics surgeon locally and the radiologist that I shouldn't worry about the horrific mastectomy scars inflicted on our grandmothers generation, things are very different nowadays, plastics and aesthetics and surgical techniques are very advanced now, there were many options.
I began researching.
It was really hard. There was such a lot of horror inspiring images. I'm actually not going to post the full response I was going to because it will frighten the life out of people.
However now I have a reasonable reconstruction I'm tempted to show what is possible and allow women to be a bit more proactive in their treatment options, once the cancer is treated and they are left to get on with their lives.
There are a lot of surgeons out there, some very, very good ones, up and down the country, and every single woman should have access to them.
Let's take an analogy of a wedding dress, I want to have a wedding dress made for me. I go to several meetings with wedding dress makers, I look at their designs and testimonials from previous work I then select the dress maker who I believe will make the best dress for me. I will then go to several measuring and fitting sessions before the dress is made. Once it's made I will go back for any small tweaks necessary. The dressmaker will at all times be committed to making sure I'm completely delighted with my dress.
Hands up anyone who had that level of service from their surgeon ?
If you did let's start listing our favourites, with region and specialism, if we can make one thing easier for people going through diagnosis it will be worth it. This is the sort of thing Macmillan should fund.
Carolyn
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this was the thread ... it's still accepting recommendations !!
Carolyn
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real life success stories to remind you that people do survive breast cancer
https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer_types/breast-cancer/f/38/t/115457
Dr Peter Harvey
https://www.workingwithcancer.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/After-the-treatment-finishes-then-what.pdf
here is it
real life success stories to remind you that people do survive breast cancer
https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer_types/breast-cancer/f/38/t/115457
Dr Peter Harvey
https://www.workingwithcancer.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/After-the-treatment-finishes-then-what.pdf
Carolyn
Time will tell if I can contribute as haven't had surgery yet (but given the battles am fighting am unlikely to suggest mine on that basis however...) but am confused as to what is easy to search for? Tried your title and found little that seemed relevant - what am I missing?
Thanks
Sam
hi Sam, Yorkshire_defector
sorry, I kept losing threads and we thought 'check-a-blade' would be easier to find, it still took me several goes to resurrect this thread.
In theory if you read the posts from other women in this thread they have recommended their teams or surgeons.
My first surgeon was in need of a trip to spec savers.
not only did he miss a clearly visible tumour which I'd pointed out to him his sewing/gluing skills were seriously lacking. I was left with a scar that looked like a dog had chewed it with flappy bits at the end, they call those 'dog ears', whereas I'd seen a friends scar and it was really neat.
Plus the implant was enormous, so I had corrective surgery after I'd chemo and the scar is now a lot better, it's not fantastic but better than it was.
Have a read through the posts in this thread and see what others are saying.
I know it's cosmetic but it's going to make a massive difference to how you feel once you've been treated, helping you recover, which isn't just physical it's mental too.
I was going to tag someone whose recently had a delayed reconstruction let me find her ...
jowoomot you've just had the diep done, happy with your surgeon ? xx
Carolyn
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real life success stories to remind you that people do survive breast cancer
https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer_types/breast-cancer/f/38/t/115457
Dr Peter Harvey
https://www.workingwithcancer.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/After-the-treatment-finishes-then-what.pdf
this is the thread, there's not many recommendations but it might help
where are you based ?
Carolyn
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real life success stories to remind you that people do survive breast cancer
https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer_types/breast-cancer/f/38/t/115457
Dr Peter Harvey
https://www.workingwithcancer.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/After-the-treatment-finishes-then-what.pdf
I would like to thoroughly recommend my whole team at Queen Alexandra Hospital Portsmouth.Mr Avi Agrawal,Head of Breast Surgery and Mark Tatterton "Magic Hands" did my lumpectomy and nipple removal.The result its beyond my expectations Mr Adrian Ball is also one of the team and I had expected him to do my operation,however,Covid stepped and the team changed.In my husband's words "it's amazing".
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